Second Careers and How to Deal with Them

February 5th, 2010

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By BoomerYearbook.com

Baby boomers approaching their mid fifties tend to take stock, with a view to planning as comfortable a retirement as possible in circumstances that may not be financially rosy. The average baby boomer comes from a generation accustomed to getting the best that money can buy and a retirement spent economizing on groceries is hardly ideal.

Typically, baby boomers spend only a little time cursing the government and the banks and the oh-so-clever money men who got them into this mess, choosing instead to focus on a solution to subsidize their income in later years.

Baby boomer professionals are firm believers in getting things done the right way and paying the right man for the right job. This does not mean, however, that older operatives cannot learn new skills – or that picking up a pension following a successful career means enforced retirement. Many energetic and super motivated over fifties choose to take up a second career out of a desire to remain active but the truth is that the majority seek work to sponsor their ‘retirement’.

An augmented income for seniors can be a big financial help and make all the difference to enjoying retirement to the full. Find more information about second careers online. That second income might be used for grocery treats; for taking foreign holidays and exploring Rome and the Far East instead of being confined to vacations nearer to home by budget limitations; or it might simply cover membership of the golf club, which might otherwise be unaffordable. Whatever the reason for re-applying the nose to the grindstone, the choices are vast and varied:

• Medical professionals such as trained and well qualified nurses might consider a new career in child minding or home nursing, either professionally or privately, both of which require formal checks. ‘Attending’ as a supervisor for first aid training is a job traditionally reserved for qualified personnel but the role carries none of the pressures of a full time hospital position. Company nurses are sometimes recruited from retired medical staff and happily spend their time mostly in administration on a smaller but nonetheless welcome salary.
• The real estate business can sometimes provide employment for retired quantity or chartered surveyors; builders; decorators and ex employees of land offices. Experience is valuable and potential employers are delighted to pay a lower premium for someone with know-how.
• The internet has brought the era of the home based worker to the attention of prospective retirees with a cash flow problem. Outsourcing is a great way to start up a company or work for someone who is willing to pay an agreed rate. Outsourced jobs include engineering design; web work; writing and translation services; graphic design; illustration services and even ‘virtual’ assistance and secretarial duties. The advantages are obvious: there are few overheads; you can pick and choose your contracts without the conventional restrictions of the workplace and you can go to work in your pyjamas if you feel like it.

Freelancing

Freelance contracting offers so many obvious advantages for baby boomers: there is nobody to tell you how to run your job; you can cut off a relationship with any client whom you feel does not offer a satisfying work experience (although good commercial manners should always govern behavior in that direction); there is total freedom of enterprise, allowing clever contractors to charge what the market will allow and there are no restrictions to branching into other areas of expertise.

No corporate ladder! How great is that!

There are some reputable outsourcing websites to explore but remember to exercise caution when trawling the internet for work: never part with personal information and read terms and conditions carefully before entering into contracts.

The Psychological Article on Second Careers and How to Deal With Them is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Second Careers and Where to Find Them

February 5th, 2010

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Second Careers and Where to Find Them

By BoomerYearbook.com

The age of the computer has brought us freedom: freedom of easy reference; the capability to source information previously available only in libraries or by lengthy letter enquiry. Wanting a second career is only the start of the journey for determined baby boomers. Finding the right occupation is a challenge but with the help of the internet it is possible to ‘reassess’ your talents and skills before getting out there to look for that special second string to your bow.

It is always a good idea to interact with others and make use of forums where ambitious fifties gather to swap interesting information. Other people’s ideas provide a springboard for your own so take the opportunity to learn how others are getting on in the job world.

A new career might be necessary but not necessarily daunting. Baby boomers have a special gift for insisting on the best and somehow getting it against all odds. Being the ‘new guy’ on the other side of fifty can be both financially rewarding and amusing if you approach the situation with:

• A sense of humor
• A determination to enjoy your new working life.
• A positive outlook. Negativity is the enemy of any successful venture, especially starting over in a new career late in life

From the employers’ point of view, a mature employee with years of valuable experience can be a huge bonus. Offices and factories are operated with subtle differences but the fundamental rules and guidelines of commerce are similar in most areas of the manufacturing and service industries. Additionally, forward thinking companies are beginning to appreciate that mature baby boomer staff members offer great free training resources for ‘newbies’ on a ‘buddy’ system.

There are retirees who look forward to widening their horizons by stepping into an entirely new profession at ground level. Trainees, even mature ones, are under little pressure to perform and this period of learning can be the most fun a rookie will have for years to come! This is possibly the only opportunity one will ever have to take an entirely different direction in life. Throwing away the opportunity to pick up a pension earned over twenty years to pursue a new career during one’s thirties and forties can be a strong incentive to do the time; as a result, many wait a long time to switch careers and look forward to embracing that long nurtured dream.

Finding the training

Stepping into the unknown can be worrysome – especially without any inkling of what to expect. Training information online is profuse, with advice on how baby boomers might obtain instruction, creditation, qualifications and the all important confidence to step into a brand new World.

The money is certainly an incentive but there is little point in dreading getting out of bed in the morning to face a job one cannot stand! Finding the right role that utilizes individual skills is imperative to success and happiness in a second career. Tempting as it is to find work that is totally different it is more practical to perform a role that stretches one’s talents and skills to avoid losing them through lack of use.

For those who want to go back to a job but lack the imagination or know how to source the correct type of work, there are consultants and recruitment packages in abundance, both in government sponsored programs and online. Pick one! But be sure to explore all the possibilities of one thing before you hop to another possibility. The market is huge so detailed research is important to get an accurate idea of what is out there and whether it offers what you are looking for. Where training is offered, seize the opportunity to learn new skills or update those you already have.

Pension issues

Bear in mind when considering a return to the workplace that a state sourced pension will be affected in terms of tax; likely to be withdrawn entirely or at least significantly reduced while you are earning. Tax implications are clearly laid out on government websites: make stringent enquiries before launching your new career.

The Psychological Article on Second Careers and Where to Find Them is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Exercising the Brain for Mental Health

February 4th, 2010

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Exercising the Brain for Mental Health

Psychological Articles on Elderly Problems By BoomerYearbook.com

The neural structure of the brain begins developing in the human fetus and continues to expand and develop throughout life; a constant and unending learning and computing process that begins with the task of hunting for food for survival and ends with the struggle to stay sharp and efficient until death.

The brain has an amazing ability to adapt to circumstances, learning new skills to cope with life’s changes and with the natural process of aging. As we live our lives, our brains perform countless and multiple calculations in response to our environment.

This may be demonstrated by a simple effort to write with the other hand – left handed people might try writing with their right hand, for example. It is uncomfortable and the writing quality is poor but with practice the writing will improve as the brain learns the skills required to produce the desired results. Other simple day to day skills may be attempted to strengthen one’s ambidexterity, such as hair brushing or telephone dialing.

Stimulation is the key to a healthy brain, both mentally and physically. Healthy physical exercises such as aerobics help baby boomers in turn to promote healthy brain muscle: allowing a slow down in physical processes can result in a poor mental performance.

Mental stimulation forbaby boomers should involve learning something new as often as possible, forcing the mind to explore new concepts. A person with set hobbies and interests is less likely to retain a sharp perception than someone who actively seeks new challenges by learning how to conquer new motor skills or perhaps a new language.

Extensive reading is a highly recommended brain stretcher. However, reading the same old romances over and over is not going to contribute to the health of anyone’s brain! Reading should be prolific; sweeping a wide range of topics, encouraging the mind to expand to engulf new ideas and perceptions.

The finest way to ensure baby boomers’ bodies and brains remain healthy is to pursue both mental and physical activities for as many hours in the day as possible. Manual skills that require an element of hand and eye coordination and a certain amount of mental calculation are excellent leisure hour fillers – hobbies that fall into this category are knitting and sewing; wood crafts; modeling; painting; sculpting and pottery.

Spinning Girl Genius Test Explained by BoomerYearbook.com

Spinning Girl Genius Test Explained by BoomerYearbook.com

Games that require an amount of brainwork are excellent for keeping the mind active and alert with:

• Scrabble
• crosswords
• the baby boomer website, BoomerYearbook.com’s Concentration Game
• Sudoku
• electronic games
• Social card games such as Bridge or Whist

All enforce an amount of calculation and reasoning, some of which are outside one’s ‘comfort zone’. It is the boundaries of the comfort zone that must be confronted to ensure the mind is made to work significantly harder.

The left and right side of the brain control different skills: simple tests can determine which side of the brain an individual favors, such as the dancing girl featured on BoomerYearbook.com. It is important that both sides of the brain are exercised – trying to see the dancing girl turn in both directions is the challenge!

Taking an hour or two to browse titles in the local bookstore that one would normally pass by can be enlightening. Selecting a book that is totally outside one’s usual interest and determinedly reading it from cover to cover can open doors in the mind previously shut tight while one’s brain vegetated happily for years! Start with something factual and set targets to read certain passages each day.

Some baby boomers actively seek opportunities to participate in general knowledge quizzes in retirement, or begin to keep a regular journal to sharpen their writing skills. It does not matter how the brain is stretched, provided that it somehow is!

With advancing years, the baby boomers’ need to exercise the brain increases. As retirement approaches, too many of us are prepared to ‘give the brain a rest’ – brains do not need a rest! They actually need just the opposite kind of therapy to stay happy and healthy and to avoid shut down.

The Psychological Article on Exercising the Brain for Mental Health is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Baby Boomer Spending Power and the Pull of the Designer Tag

January 27th, 2010

Boomer Yearbook explores the fascinating and varied behavioral patterns that occur in the baby boomer generation with coaching solutions available: Boomer Yearbook’s Guide and Coaching Strategy for the baby boomer generation

 
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By BoomerYearbook.com

The baby boomer cash cow shows no sign of abating. The generation with oodles of boodle continues to be a marketing target for manufacturers big and small. Money talks and average baby boomers generate enough hard cash to be a valuable potential customer for just about anything: cars; houses; clothes; jewelry.

The baby boomer marketplace is discerning, however, with an exacting benchmark for products and services. The most laid back and easy to please members of society are unexpectedly discriminating when it comes to the clothes they wear; the holidays they take and the way they wear their hair: they can afford to be.

Lady baby boomers are known to be among the most prolific shoppers with a steely determination to purchase the best and ignore the rest – well heeled (Jimmy Choo or Manolo Blahnik usually) ladies can always find the extra several hundred dollars needed to fund their shoe store indulgences and clever marketing executives make sure the best is readily available.

Label Hunters

A great deal of noise is made about label hunters who are invariably accused of being ‘snob shoppers’. The truth is, however, that designer clothing holds up under close inspection. A typical Chanel or Catherine Walker suit is beautifully stitched; classically cut and will stand the test of time; as wearable in ten years as it is today. A professional lady baby boomer wants a power image without losing femininity; a concept the definitive professional baby boomer Catherine Walker understands perfectly. Her range of business wear is unparalleled and its only minus point is the price: haute couture tags are way out of reach of the average housewife with a small budget but within target range of Ms Baby Boomer.

The baby boomer generation tends to look for the bigger picture when it comes to discernment. There is no point in having a designer wardrobe if you live in a trailer and drive around in a rusty pick up circa 1970: enter the executive package Lexus, the custom fitted cedar dressing room and membership of the Yacht Club!

A love of beauty and of beautiful surroundings is addictive and applies to every aspect of life. The art of acquisition is ongoing: why carry around a PVC practical zip up wallet if you can afford the finest Armani embossed leather? Why be satisfied with a calico lined handbag if you can afford Givenchy or Louis Vuitton, fitted with soft and tactile Italian chamois with matching accessories?

The baby boomer community has a tenacious belief in its destiny and its entitlement to the best that money can buy.

They earned it and as far as they are concerned why shouldn’t they spend it?

Why not indeed…!

The Psychological Article on Baby Boomer Spending Power and the Pull of the Designer Tag is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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BoomerYearbook.com Free Card Concentration Game

January 27th, 2010

Focus and see how quickly you can find the matching card. This is a game that helps build memory and concentration.

BoomerYearbook.com Free Card Concentration Game is on the home page of BoomerYearbook.com

Simply Press Start Game to begin timing and click yellow boxes to show cards and find matches.

Sharpening the Mind with the BoomerYearbook.com Card Concentration Game

January 26th, 2010

 

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Spinning Girl Genius Test Explained by BoomerYearbook.com

 

By BoomerYearbook.com

The ailments that typify baby boomer later years are all too often concerned with the mind slowing down. A person who spends half their life doing physical work would find their muscles softening once their routine changes in retirement. Similarly, the human brain requires regular exercise to ‘keep its eye on the ball’.

Like every other part of the body, the mind needs exercise to stay active and healthy. Brain exercises can make a difference, help to retain awareness and ward off elderly problems by injecting activity into those tired cells instead of allowing them to rest on their laurels!

A mind that is used constantly stays sharp and able to problem solve, which probably explains why Bridge is so popular with the baby boomer community; it certainly gives the mind a well deserved workout and helps to retain the brain’s natural ability to reason and to apply logic to a given situation. Playing the BoomerYearbook.com Card Concentration Game will keep the mind sharpened and ready to slave over a hot Bridge tournament!

You cannot take your brain out and give it a good pummelling on the trampoline – unfortunately… The brain requires different exercise – the kind that involves concentration and mental application.

Attending an inspiring talk on a subject that interests us or becoming involved in a heated debate will leave us feeling oddly invigorated. This is the brain working overtime and enjoying its stimulation. Sending it home to vegetate in front of the TV will result in its slowing down – anticipating that it is no longer required on board!

The BomerYearbook.com Card Concentration Game takes a few minutes tops; helping to keep your faculties agile and up to speed. Click on any square to reveal the number or image. It will pop up and quickly disappear until you find its corresponding number or picture on the grid. Once you have matched pairs they will stay displayed until the end of the game. Easy? Sure it is… The timer will tell you how you are progressing.

The challenge is to complete the game faster than last time or even faster than your competitor if you are playing with a partner. Beating your personal best is rewarding and reassuring – try it and see!

The baby boomer brain can be as sharp or as dull as you want – the BomerYearbook.com Card Concentration Game builds memory and concentration; clearing away the cobwebs and keeping the mind agile, flexible, and healthy.

 

Spinning Girl Genius Test by BoomerYearbook.com

Spinning Girl Genius Test by BoomerYearbook.com

The Psychological Article on Sharpening the Mind with the BoomerYearbook.com Card Concentration Game is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Not Without an Invitation…….!

January 22nd, 2010

Not Without an Invitation…!

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By BoomerYearbook.com

 

At the end of 2009, gate crashers managed to breach two clear areas of security and attend a state dinner arranged to honor the Indian Prime Minister, so we are told.  The cheeky and socially ambitious Tareq Salahi and his wife Michaele managed to get past reportedly impregnable security checks, including at least two Secret Service checks and a scanner, and mingle with the great and good at a glittering affair attended by everyone who is anyone.

 

After bluffing their way into the East Room where cocktails were served, the Salahis were photographed with Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel and continued to meet and greet dozens of honored (and presumably invited) guests such as United States Vice President Joe Biden and the Indian Embassy Chief of Mission Arun K Singh.

 

White House Spokesman Robert Gibbs, presumably with President Obama’s approval, emphatically stated that crashers Tareq Salahi and his wife Michaele were NOT invited – NOT on the guest list – despite the Salahis’ assurances that an invitation was issued. 

 

Yet some interesting observations have surfaced concerning the alleged ‘gate crashing’ of this White House formal dinner.  Mr Obama’s attitude to the incident and reported anger ‘apres dinner’ at the ‘sloppy’ security measures taken to exclude unwanted guests suggests the crashers were unwelcome strangers and in no way acquainted with the first couple. 

 

Weeks later, we are presented with photographs taken of the once Senator Obama being obviously chummy with the Salahis: smiling faces; arms linked – in what is becoming a typical contradiction in so many matters that concern the new president.

 

Why the song and dance routine about the incompetence of the Secret Service and the call for tighter security?  Sceptics are suggesting that the President is attempting to ‘throw the Secret Service under the bus’… If so: why?

 

Whatever agenda there might be behind closed doors, the Secret Service has since been forced to review security policies on state occasions, resulting in stringent and probably costly adjustments to existing procedures.  

 

Not for the first time, the chameleon-like Obama appears in a totally different light to the one we all originally perceived. Or did we?  Did the president ever really categorically state that he had NOT INVITED the Salahis?  Or did he actually criticize the Secret Service security procedure simply because the Salahis were not in possession of a valid invitation?  Did Joe Biden present an invitation?  Did the Indian Chief of Mission present his? What did Obama actually complain about?  Does anyone know, apart from the Secret Service itself?

 

Was he really enraged about sloppy and ineffective security or was he simply ticked off because a pair of social climbers he would prefer to forget he ever met managed to freeload a fancy White House formal reception?  The question marks that concern the motives of President Obama typify the mysterious personality of America’s newest and most unpredictable president and lead us to wonder what will turn up next…?

 

The Salahis’ presence at the White House State affair was certainly knowingly contrived without a formal invitation, explaining why they did not attempt to take seats at dinner: the absence of their names on the seating plan would prompt an immediate security check, however inattentive the Secret Service might have been.

 

If publicity was the true motive of the Salahis, they have certainly achieved a level of attention with their party crashing stunt: so has Obama.

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The Beautiful World of Zentangles

January 18th, 2010
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Zentangle: BoomerYearbook.com

By BoomerYearbook.com

The art of Zentangle was developed by Maria Thomas and Rick Roberts. At a glance, Zentangle images appear to be a complicated interwoven mass of lines and curves. On closer inspection it becomes clear that Zentangles are carefully drawn doodles; images of passing fancy that are created from simple beginnings.

Zentangles are ‘built’ line upon line, with embellishments added at will by the artist. The images are compelling, probably because most people can look upon the sections of a Zentangle and think, ‘Well I could do that’. And they do!

One of the many attractions of Zentangles is that they are accessible for anyone who can put pen to paper: children;baby boomers; tired executives… There is no necessity for artistic talent, although a creative side is invariably exposed with practice. They can be as simple or as intricate as you wish and for some they have replaced crosswords and Sudoku as a commuter’s companion! They are calming, pleasing stress removers that are slightly addictive so be warned!

Zentangling artists tend to range in age from around four to ninety four – the beauty of the Zentangle is that it requires no expensive equipment, simply pen or pencil or both and some good quality paper. Beginners are usually delighted with even a first attempt, which is likely why a second and third effort follow quickly after!

Baby boomers find that Zentangles can be used to decorate and embellish and can be incorporated in other work such as scrap booking, journals, invitation designs and they have even been drawn onto trainers to personalize someone’s daily workouts!
One of the more interesting benefits of Zentangle for baby boomers is the effect of reducing stress. The process of absorbing the mind brings tranquility. Time runs away as the artist slips further into his or her creation, producing lines, blocks and circles that are fascinating, interwoven pockets, drawing the eye and calming the soul. Its therapeutic effects have been known to help deal with addiction; anger; stress; recuperation from illness and work related distress and even a first experience of putting pen to paper to create a Zentangle teaches why this is so. In simple terms it is an exercise in hand eye co-ordination that requires very little natural artistic talent. The result, however, is artistic in the extreme and it is possible for five year olds to turn out a piece of work that is every bit as impressive as something a professional artist might produce. How neat is that…! The process of producing a Zentangle utilizes just about every area of the brain and requires the creator to be totally absorbed, making it a valuable tool to combat stress.

The finished work boosts confidence and fills the artist with enthusiasm to try again. There are certain skills which may be learned, such as pattern techniques and shading but on the whole, a raw novice can enjoy Zentangling from the outset and build an impressive gallery within a week or so. Zentangles may also provide a satisfying pastime for someone who is armchair bound or even bed bound. Baby boomers who are recovering from illness could find Zentangling deeply therapeutic.The Psychological Article on The Beautiful World of Zentangles is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Zentangle Wacky Picture Cleaned: BoomerYearbook.com

Zentangles traditionally are created on small squares of paper (making them pocket friendly) although some, like the one in our illustration, expand to become more ambitious and larger pieces. The patterns are inspired by nature; architecture and people and there are no limitations to what a Zentangle might depict. Some are themed; some are not; a totally free media of expression and a way for the mind to celebrate its artistic side as well as exercise its ability to problem solve; direct ideas and freely portray unconstrained thoughts on paper.

Beverly Godfrey is a passionate Zentangle artist with a fine collection of Zentangle projects in her portfolio. A beginner’s guide is available on her Squidoo lens at http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-zentangle

See Maria Thomas’ Zentangles at http://www.zentangle.com/index.php

Baby Boomer Vanity – Where Will it Lead Us?

January 16th, 2010

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By Dr. Karen for BoomerYearbook.com

Baby boomers continue to attract criticism in their advancing years. In the maelstrom of ‘boomer controversy’ in the fifties, sixties and seventies of the last Century, baby boomers were attacked for their promiscuity; their blatant disregard of rules, regulations and traditions and most of all for their sheer audacity when it came to refusing to do doing things the way they had always been done. When boomers decided they no longer liked society’s values, they set out to change them. And change them they certainly did!

In the bad old days (in other words before plastic) things were a little different. New mothers struggled with heaving metal buckets of soaking diapers because there was no alternative to getting cloth toweling clean and sterile as baby boomers had not yet invented disposable diapers. The wonder of synthetics had not yet changed the World, so every housewife’s daily routine included armfuls of washing and pressing of family clothing – not to mention an ongoing battle with pure cotton bed linen to be boiled, starched and pressed before it was deemed fit for use.

Women particularly were victims of agricultural facilities. Most men in the pre boomer age enjoyed the status of ‘lord and master’ and favored conventional family roles where they very much ruled the roost; rarely helping with household chores; usually making all decisions of a financial nature for good or ill; sometimes availing themselves of a social life separate to family life, found in sporting and drinking clubs.

In addition to the inconvenience of daily chores, many lladies were compelled to stay within the strict perimeters of local prejudice. A respectable widow, even if she was still relatively young, would not dream of casual dating and risk triggering gossip and scandal. Dressing in racy fashions was definitely out of the question! As she got older, her skin wrinkled and her teeth and gums began to weaken: she accepted her toothless and wrinkly future quietly and made the best of things, choosing to cover the wrinkles with thick, unsightly make up resembling filler and thinly veiling her ill fitting dentures with a watery smile…

The general aura of practicality surrounding society in pre boomer days would hardly encourage vanity. Newspaper promotion vaguely endorsed the importance of ladies keeping their figures through heavy corseting right up to the fifties but few cosmetic enhancements were available, apart from standard face paint widely frowned upon. Men were invited to keep their beards well trimmed and reminded that real men smoked the right brand of cigar or cigarette but were otherwise left to age graciously!

Baby boomer technology changed everything forever

Yet by the closing years of the last Century, it was possible to completely transform one’s appearance and scrape away the years as much as one wished, provided there were sufficient funds to cover the treatments. Plastic and silicone technology brought revolutionary medical corrective surgery. Combined with a determination to stay young, almost anything became possible for a baby boomer on a mission to live forever…

Any why not? Why should the World object on the one hand to the baby boomer vanities that brought physical enhancement to the modern World and yet on the other hand have the temerity to avail itself of the technological and surgical facilities now available courtesy of boomer skills, talents and resources?

In the twenties and thirties of the last Century, a man with a toothache could either put up with it or undergo an extraction. By the time he reached his late fifties, he would be most fortunate to have sufficient healthy teeth left to chew! Nowadays, it is extremely rare for a fifty, sixty and even seventy year old to wear false teeth. Early orthodontry pulls and pushes teeth and gums into shape and modern dental methods strengthen gum and bone sufficiently to ensure our teeth outlive us. No more plates; no more embarrassment…

Research changed that: boomers changed that.

Along with the ability to perform cosmetic surgery, new morals surfaced to accompany physical enhancement. The World talked itself into believing breast lifts were perfectly acceptable, along with hair transplants; nose jobs; tummy tucks and less invasive treatments such as eyelash dyeing; hair tinting; skin peels.

Baby boomer vanity is one of the biggest single money spinners in the history of marketing and the reason is obvious: boomers have money.

Baby boomer morals have always been slightly flawed where the rest of the World was concerned but their ability to ‘fix stuff’ has always been legendary. Who on earth would tolerate being fat, bald and toothless if they could be slim, fit, with a perfect flashing smile and a full head of hair? Who? Broke people – that’s who!

It takes money. And money, unfortunately, is a commodity the average Joe does not have. The result is resentment of boomers and their ability to have exactly what they want whenever they want it.

As we lurch into a new Century, modern science embroiders on boomer achievements to improve on existing treatments in an effort to make them not only better but also cheaper and therefore more accessible for those with fewer financial resources.

So don’t worry – by 2050, we will ALL be gorgeous!

The Psychological Article on Baby Boomer Vanity – Where Will it Lead Us? is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Baby Boomers and Sexual Freedom

January 14th, 2010
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By Boomeryearbook.com

Any kind of a sexual revolution has had baby boomers in their very forefront, right from the very beginning. This is the reason why baby boomers have been given so much importance by people around the world. A recent poll and study just concluded amongst parents suggests that baby boomers have a much more enjoyable as well as enticing life than others. They enjoy a greater sexual freedom and are open to vivid types of foreplay.

This rage in echo boomers to copy the attitude of baby boomers has been growing. Baby boomers are increasing in number and today, their tally has reached to eighty five million. Today, people are increasingly interested in meeting interesting people and going the distant lane along with them. The results of numerous research done in the area suggest the very same thing. About 30 per cent of baby boomer population are single. There are about 34 per cent baby boomers out of these who indulge in having sex on their very first date. There are still other 17 per cent who indulge into pre- marital sex.

There are various intents as well as reasons which drive youngsters into copying baby boomers attitudes , as suggested by the questionnaire based survey conducted in the United States and Canada. Out of the entire lot of baby boomers, at least 47 per cent of the population consisted of those who were looking for friendship and about 17 percent others were looking for an able as well as an amicable sexual companion. Such baby boomers are increasingly sexually free as well as liberated.

The reason behind this has to do with the environment in which these baby boomers were born and brought up. These were the times of radicalism as well as social change. These were the times when feminist movements and sentiments were doing rounds in the society and these empowered women to feel more confident about their sexual wants as well as needs in the bed. These were the times when contraception became increasingly popular and the issues related to pregnancy and the fear of its social repercussions started to be forgotten. Even single parenting ceased to be a social taboo and this encouraged many women and men all over the world to indulge in sexual relationships more freely.

One of the greatest points of advantage which baby boomers enjoy over their parents’ generation has to do with a modern day lifestyle syndrome which is known as the empty nest syndrome. If you consider parents, they look forward to enjoy a very active sexual life till the time their son/daughter goes to college. When this happens, it is hard to talk about issues during bed and sexual interest gets a bit lost. Baby boomers however have the advantage of being able to find a common activity which interests both the partners. Thus while going for walks, reading or exercising routines; they can easily indulge in sexual conversation leading to activity which is highly beneficial for the entire relationship.

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