Archive for January, 2009

Staying Safe In A Dangerous World

Wednesday, January 14th, 2009

 

 

Tips to Keep You Safe

Tips to Keep You Safe

 

By Boomeryearbook.com

 

This world is not as safe as we once thought it was. Every day on the news we see thievery, murder, and deceit. As baby boomers, you are prime targets for con artists, thieves, and others out to harm you. You are even more at risk if you live alone, so it is very important for you to know ways to protect yourself and other important areas of your life such as your finances, your home, and your identity.

Safety In The Home

Keeping you and your home safe is a huge priority. It is important to be aware of the dangers lurking outside your door and be able to detect those that are trying to invade your territory. Here are some key ways to help you stay safe.

Think before giving out any personal information – Do not give out any personal information over the phone, through the mail or to anyone trying to sell you something. Do your research and make sure you confirm their affiliation is legitimate before agreeing to do any kind of business. Also shred any documents with your social security number, bank account numbers, or checks before throwing them in the trash.
Make sure you know everyone who has access to your home – This includes repairmen, housekeepers, and anyone else who is supposed to be there. Do not give a key to anyone but family members.
Get an alarm system – Alarm systems are a great source of security. If anyone does attempt to break in it will alert the authorities and also call you to make sure you are alright. Lock all windows and doors when you are leaving the house and when you are going to bed, whether at night or during the day.
 

Staying Safe Outside of the Home

It is not necessary to stay locked in your home in fear of something happening to you. There are ways to stay safe when you do decide to go out.

Be aware of your surroundings – If you see any suspicious activity or just get a vibe that something is wrong do not ignore it. Get as far as you can as fast as you can to a safe place.
Keep your purse or wallet close to your body – Do not leave purses or other belongings out in plain sight. Keep them hidden as much as possible or keep them very close. If someone does attempt to attack you yell “Fire” as loud as you can. If you are not able to yell make sure you have a whistle or a horn in reach that you can use to draw attention.
Travel in pairs or more – It is wise to travel with a friend or two when going out, whether it is to the market or to dinner. You will have the company plus it would be harder for someone to attack a group of people. Make sure at least one person has a phone in case of emergencies.
Staying safe is a number one priority on the minds of everyone, young and old. Make sure you know how to remain safe and help to equip others with the tools they need to do the same. 

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Boomers Who Are Looking To Retire In New Places

Wednesday, January 14th, 2009
Assisted Living Facility

Assisted Living Facility

Where is a Good Place to Go

By Boomeryearbook.com

 

As we get older, some of us are likely to make the decision to relocate. For some, it may be to a nice ranch house in Florida; but many others must decide whether to move and live with other family members or to an adult care facility  because of health and/or financial issues(http://boomeryearbook.com/blog/2009/01/06/boomers-need-long-term-planning-for-long-term-care-insurance/).  It is important to consider your family, as well as your own well being as you make this important move. There are advantages and disadvantages that come with each living arrangement and so it is important to weigh your options very carefully.

Family Matters

Living with family members can be a wonderful experience. You will be able to see them regularly, perhaps spend more time with grandchildren, and feel at home. However, sometimes it turns out to be not such an easy thing. If the household is already full, then adding one more person may put a strain on budget and space. Also, depending on your age, you may not have as much freedom to come and go as you would if you were on your own. Your health is another big factor. If you know that your health requires lots of medical attention a family member’s home may not be the best place for you to be.

This decision is dependent on your personal situation. Sometimes living with family would mean moving way across the country or simply moving across town. It would be something that you and your family really want to discuss as thoroughly as you possibly can.  It is not possible to look at all the scenarios that might occur, but it’s important to have a plan as to how to integrate you into the family’s routine over time. 

Adult Care Facility

The term “Adult Care Facility” sounds really unfriendly, but actually most of them are not like that at all. Hence, the name that’s currently associated with them is assisted living communities. Baby Boomers are able to maintain their independence while under the assistance of trained professionals that are there when needed. They are outfitted with the necessary equipment to meet their patient’s needs. Many facilities have multiple sections that are specialized for the amount of care and attention a person needs. Once you get to the stage where you are unable to take care of yourself you can be transferred to another area within the community. You can also meet others in your age group who live there and participate in fun activities. Many decide to choose this route and often have no regrets.

However, sometimes the community may not be the best choice for you. In some cases, they may feel too much like an island without any family members close by, and in some communities, you might not be treated well by the employees. Long-term care in these facilities can be very expensive and require careful financial planning.

Assisted living communities have become very popular and can provide for all your needs. It is important to do your homework on each community and find the one that is most recommended. Whatever your decision may be, make sure that everyone involved approves and is willing to do their part to make the process as enjoyable as possible. 

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How Unique Dreams & Their Symbolism can be..

Tuesday, January 13th, 2009
Snake Dreams

Snake Dreams

By Courtenay Turner for Boomeryearbook.com

    As a dream analyst I often encounter people who ask me to provide 
answers to what specific things in their dreams mean.  They want me to 
respond much like a human dictionary.  For instance they will say 
“what does it mean when I see a snake in my dream?”  They then look to 
me hoping I will say “it means you will have money fall into your 
hands soon, or that you cannot trust your loved one” etc.  
Unfortunately I don’t believe it is this simple at all.  Perhaps this 
is fortunate because it provides much more specific insight when we 
really delve into what these symbols mean to us as individuals.

    The reason I cannot provide a universal response to what snakes, or 
lightning, or falling or anything else means is because we all come 
from such diverse backgrounds and life experiences that mold our views 
on the things we may see in our dreams. Let’s take the snake example.  
Personally I am terrified of snakes, but I have friends who think they 
are beautiful, powerful, have them as pets etc.  When I dream of a 
snake it will mean something very different for me then when they 
dream of a snake.

    You may be wondering if there is no universal dream dictionary how on 
earth do I decipher the meaning of my dreams.  I encourage you to 
firstly write down your dreams.  This will help you to remember them 
more clearly, and to use them as a tool for self discovery.  When you 
are analyzing various symbols or situations in your dreams, ask 
yourself how you would describe the symbol both in the dream and in 
life and examine where in your life you see such a description.  Here 
is an example: again back to snakes.  I would describe snakes as 
terrifying, toxic,  and powerful.  Then I would ask myself what in my 
life or what part of myself do I think is like a snake which I 
described as being “terrifying, toxic and powerful”.

    The beautiful thing about dreams being such a unique metaphor for all 
of us is that the symbolism and meanings may vary not only from person 
to person but even at different times in our lives.  If tomorrow I 
have a positive experience with a snake and tomorrow night I dream about a
snake, it may have a new meaning than it would have for me tonight.  I 
look forward to all of you unlocking the key to you lives through your 
unconscious nightly reveries!

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Financial investments for baby boomers

Tuesday, January 13th, 2009

  

retirement money

retirement money

                                              By Boomeryearbook.com

There are about 78 million baby boomers in America and according to a USA Today survey, their saving quotients are a mere 34% of the money needed for comfortable retirement. It seems to have become an widespread American trait; many of us baby boomers are just not good savers. Yet good investment decisions are critical in order to survive difficult economic times. As baby boomers are reaching retirement, it is essential for us to alleviate as much stress as we can by investigating our financial retirement options. While pensions alone are usually insufficient to provide security and support a decent style of living, boomers should not allow recent market downturns to deter financial investing. We may always have debts and commitments, however,  the challenge is to have a balance by adopting appropriate investment strategies and choose “personally wise” financial investments. And always keep in mind. The earlier you begin investing the greater the typical benefits.

Some good  financial investments for baby boomers:
 
Life-cycle funds

Life cycle funds are mainly balanced mutual funds which are structured between equity and fixed income. Its overall asset allocation is automatically adjusted from a higher to lower risk zone as the investor’s age of retirement nears. These are also known as “age-based funds” or “target-based funds”. Initially the fund will have the highest risk but as time  progresses, the fund will begin its upward incline increasing towards fixed income and focusing on appreciation and retirement income generation. It is a good investment choice for  those who are looking for less risk than the stock market’s weekly fluctuations.

DRIP

DRIP (Dividend Reinvestment Plan) is basically an equity investment option where the dividend received on shares or mutual funds is invested back into the underlying equity, which allows the money to be invested immediately without brokerage fees and results in appreciation and compounding. The advantage is that the shares are purchased at the dividend payment rate, a much discounted rate from the actual price of shares. It’s a good way to increase the value of your investment. But the DRIP plan should be balanced with other investments.

U.S. Treasuries
U.S. Treasuries bonds are notes and bills issued by the United States Federal Government. It is the safest and most reliable way of investing and should surely be a part of any investment portfolio. U.S. Treasuries provide capital preservation which is more important to baby boomers who are nearing retirement.

Certificates of Deposit

Also known as CDs, Certificates of Deposit are similar to bank savings accounts. The difference is that they are issued for a fixed term and usually with a fixed interest rate. They are actually time deposits issued by bank credit unions. The money cannot be withdrawn for the agreed time period allowing for higher interest rates. There are now new options  in which CDs or Certificates of Deposit are indexed to the stock markets; virtually risk free.

Unit Investment Trust

UIT as it is preferably called, is a US investment company that offers a fixed portfolio generally consisting of bonds and stocks. They are given as redeemable units to the investors for a specified period of time. Unit Investment Trusts (UITs) are mainly designed to provide capital appreciation.
Individual Retirement Account

Individual Retirement Account (IRA) is a best bet for baby boomers. It is widely known an widely used.  It is a retirement plan account that offers tax advantages for retirement savings. IRAs are helpful in reducing tax bills and if you are over the age of 50,you can add more to your account than the limited yearly contributions.

Variable Annuity

Variable Annuity is a contract between you and your insurance company. Here the insurance company assures to pay a minimum amount at the accumulation stage. The remaining income payment depends on the performance of the managed portfolio. VA or variable annuity gives a much required insurance coverage along with  allowing your  money to grow by investing a portion through the managed portfolio. Thus capital appreciation accrues along with the insurance. It is very important to be conscientious while  choosing a variable annuity. Be aware of all front end and back end charged fees as they can vary widely.

These financial investments are suggestions for baby boomers to have a safe and tension free future. Although there is no scarcity of baby boomers that are daring enough to go ahead and start businesses or invest in things like paintings, sports memorabilia or what ever interests them. What ever may be your choice of financial investment, make sure that the portfolio is a good mix of high risk and low risk and/or preferably assured return options. Gear up and go ahead for some smart financial investments.

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Boomer’s final frontier: Mastering the mind

Sunday, January 11th, 2009

empowermentEmpowerment

 For boomeryearbook.com

 

 

We, the baby boom generation, will be heading towards retirement in the coming years and therefore there is a need for us to have the right mindset and attitude to tackle the various kinds of challenges lurking in the horizon. All the best advice in the world will not help if we are lacking the positive and empowering personal resources to convert that advice into results.

 

Times may get worse, or may be not – the point here is to focus on our goals and what we want rather than focusing on what we don’t want. To paraphrase Ralph Waldo Emerson, “we must learn to focus on where we want to go, not on what we fear”. Our minds and its ability to focus is like a camera which can zoom in and capture beauty amidst ugliness and ugliness amidst beauty – the choice is entirely ours. As Boomers who are heading towards retirement will soon find that this new phase in life will close many old chapters and open up many new ones. We may no longer be able to feel the sense of power and authority that comes with being in positions of power but that also means that there will be plenty of time for family, hobbies and things that we always wanted to do but could never find the time for – once again our ability to focus on the proverbial “silver lining” will consequently determine our attitudes, thoughts, words and actions. Some Boomers will opt to open up a small or medium sized business, some will decide to invest their savings, and some boomers will just put their money in a fixed deposit and cherish the time with their families. All of these options are the “right choice” for as long as it is what you “really” want for yourself. But no matter what you choose to do with your retirement, the ability to “focus” correctly will define the extent of your success.

 

It is very important for Boomers to understand that our minds are our greatest resource. Focusing on thoughts of dis-empowerment and negativity will lead to similar thoughts, words and actions. Focusing on healthy thoughts will cause a diametric and natural shift in how we feel, how we see the world, how we interact with those around us and how we carry out our responsibilities to our families and money matters. We get more and more of what we focus on and whatever we don’t choose to focus on simply withers away and dies. That doesn’t necessarily mean that we should totally ignore the abnormalities in our life. It simply means that we don’t allow the challenges in our life to sweep over what’s really important. We work towards constant betterment without succumbing to our life’s negative elements. It’s pretty much like learning to ride a bike – the more you fear hitting the pole, the higher the chances are that you will eventually hit the pole – because that’s where the focus is and that’s where you will end up – the pole. To quote William Arthur Ward, “It is wise to direct your anger towards problems — not people; to focus your energies on answers — not excuses”.

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The next challenge for us boomers: Minding our wallets

Sunday, January 11th, 2009

minding our wallets 

 

For boomeryearbook.com

 

 

Here is the thing that concerns me: Over the next twenty years, millions of baby boomers will be retiring; but only a small percentage of the baby boomers are equipped with any sort of financial education that would help them make profitable “money-related” decisions. My prediction is that these baby boomers would happily handover their life savings to so-called financial experts. Now, here is the catch about investments: 1) less than twenty percent of stock and real estate brokers actually invest in the stock/property they advise their clients to invest in, 2) almost all of the financial journalists have absolutely no real life investing experience, and 3) the same goes for people who stand infront of students in colleges and universities (professors) to teach finances. Surprisingly it takes more time to become a licensed masseur than to become a financial advisor. This reminds me of what Warren Buffett has said, “Wall Street is the only place where people drive to in a Rolls Royce to take advice from someone who rides the subway”. I think that pretty much sums up what investment advisors and brokers are all about.

           

The best advice that anyone can give can be summed up in one sentence: invest in “Real Wealth” like gold, silver and property, instead of its pale counterparts; currency, stocks and bonds. I hear people brag about how wise they have been by investing in Mutual Funds and about the fact that they get an interest rate of eight, nine, ten or eleven percent per annum. Well what they don’t realize is that, silver, for example, has gone up APPROX ONE HUNDRED PERCENT in less than a year. They also fail to see that the nine and ten percent interest is offset by the huge rate of inflation. To get an idea of how rapid the inflation is, consider the fact that the price of gold has gone up by twenty times in the last thirty odd years. Here are some numbers to help you understand how bad the inflation really is: Per ounce price of gold in 1880 was $21, $21 in 1930, $38 in 1970, $354 in 1985, $444 in 2005 and $700 in 2008. Even worse: most predictions are that the gold prices would climb to $1,500 or more during the year 2009 because of the imploding global economy – that sure beats the nine percent interest from the Mutual Funds.

 

The fact is that Boomers who are retiring will have to invest TIME in their financial literacy. There are three kinds of business men and investors: 1) those that spend neither time nor money to gain knowledge and awareness of whatever is happening around them, 2) those that spend money but not time and 3) those that spend TIME but not necessarily money. The first two fail while the third kind makes it through. Boomers have to understand NOW that knowledge is the real wealth and a mind that’s eager to learn is the only ever-lasting asset. Developing a taste for acquiring financial literacy and dedicating TIME towards its study is the only secret. Never “learn” for wealth. Simply learn for the sake of learning – and if you are enjoying the learning, the wealth will follow.

 

 

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Boomer Alert!!! How To Avoid Being A Scam Victim

Sunday, January 11th, 2009

internet-scams

By Boomeryearbook.com

 

As the world becomes more technologically advanced, thieves have more ways to swindle you out of your money. There are internet scams, lotto scams, pyramid scheme scams, mail scams, scams set to play on your emotions – numerous ways designed to reel you and your bank account in when your guard is down. So how do you strike a balance between being a good Samaritan and a cautious person? Your mother had the formula, and so did her mother. It’s simple really:  Say No to Strangers.

You wouldn’t give someone on the street your credit card number or access to your bank account right? That same prudence is needed in all areas of life- the telephone, the internet, and at your kid’s school. Scams are easily avoided if we remain alert and cautious.  Learn how to not make yourself vulnerable to the many tricks and ruses of the 21st century scammer by learning what scams are ‘out there.’

Internet Scams

It seems that everyday a new internet scam pops up. Some of the more recent ones include the E-Greeting Card scam- a scam designed to extract personal information from your email and your computer while you are viewing the e-card, and use it for mail fraud, or annoying spam mail or telemarketing; Password Security/Verification scam- this goes a step further, you are asked to enter your password and a security question/answer to secure your online passwords from hackers, but the truth is that you are giving hackers access to your computer, email etc by entering and re-entering your password.

Finally, the most recent scams have to do with online job searches. You post your resume on a website and are contacted by email from a ‘vibrant new company’ who are eagerly setting up an interview for you in which you will be tested on knowledge about the company exclusively available for you to purchase with your credit card online. They tempt you with a hefty salary and it is only two weeks and zero interviews later that you realize no such company exists. You’ve been scammed.

Telephone Scams

These are generally of the same nature. You receive a phone call from a friendly-sounding operator telling you that there was a problem with your credit card/ bank account/ package at the post-office etc. and that you need to answer a few questions to get it up and running again. You are grateful for the call thinking that you were saved some future embarrassment but, think for a second. Most banks and related institutions require you to come into their office with a valid ID to sort out any problems. This woman on the phone then is probably just trying to buy a pair of designer shoes courtesy of you!

Sympathy Scams

These are varying in kind and usually involve someone in need of desperate help and only your money can help them. The Nigerian Scam is where, persons pretend that a relative of theirs has died leaving them money and the only way they can receive it is if it is sent through an American bank account. Suddenly, the person has access to your bank account and you are suddenly the contributing relative. Here’s something you can tell them: Western Union is available in Nigeria!

Say No to Strangers!

A sure-fire way of avoiding a scam is to not speak to strangers. Don’t open mail from a sender you don’t recognize, don’t loan money to a person you don’t know personally, and don’t give out private information unless you can see where it is going. Don’t talk to strangers!

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Boomers In Love: Some Great Ideas for Valentine’s Day

Sunday, January 11th, 2009

Boomers Valentine

By Boomeryearbook.com

 

So, you’re no longer a giddy teenager with the option of going to the roller rink and skating figure eights. And you’re not quite the millionaire you’d want to be- so where does that leave you on Valentine’s Day?

When a movie or dinner just doesn’t cut it anymore, how about spicing things up for this February 14?

©       Take your partner up to the highest point in your neighborhood and eat breakfast as the sun rises. Renew your commitment to each other with the new dawn.

©       Row out to the middle of the lake and share a quiet moment. Collect small pebbles and as you skip them over the water, state something you love about your mate.

©       Set up the most private room in your home like a massage parlor, buy massage oils and scented candles. Turn on soft music in the background and surprise your partner with a stress-releasing rubdown.

©       Make a full-course meal together from start to finish. Then, using only utensils for one (or none at all) enjoy sharing the meal.

©       Re-enact your first date but bring an album of your journey together and a list of ten things you’ve grown to appreciate about your partner.

©       Go on a moonlit nature walk and finish the night with a late-night cuddle and some cocoa around a small bonfire

©       Hold hands and walk down to the beach for some star-gazing

©       Hang sheets and curtains around a room for a movie-theatre feel and rent the movies you both used to love when you first started dating

©       Do nothing! Have a personal chef (or a food-savvy friend) come and cook you and your partner dinner; and pay a local talent or two to entertain you for the night.

©       Start afresh: go to the local courthouse and renew your vows.

 

For those of you who still have that giddy teenager feeling because of a new found love, you can:

©       Go to your amusement park and be a kid again- ride the Ferris wheel and the tea cups

©        Write up a love ransom note (make sure to identify yourself), and in it demand different acts of love you want to be showered with. When they show up at the spot surprise them with things you think they’d love.

©       Surprise your significant other by decorating the interior of their car or house with hearts. String them up and let them hang from the ceiling and then write out the things you appreciate about them, things you enjoy about them, even things that amuse you about them, just use your imagination.

©       Take the car and take a road trip to a place that’s important to you- like a good restaurant- casual or elegant, or a place from your childhood. Share the memory with your boyfriend/girlfriend and they’ll appreciate you for letting them in. When you get back home you’ll feel a lot closer.

©       Go mini-golfing, or any other sport that gets you close to your partner in a non-aggressive way. Let the physical closeness ignite sparks that bedroom intimacy can’t.

All in all, the most important thing you can do on Valentine’s Day is spend time together. Don’t be too busy for your partner, and don’t make plans with anyone else for that day. Remember, a little effort and consideration can go a long way.  Of course, you don’t have to wait until Valentine’s Day to do these activities, your significant other will enjoy the moments any day.

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A Baby Boomer’s Best Friend

Sunday, January 11th, 2009

How A Pet Can Help You Through The Lonely Days

boomer-and-pets

By Boomeryearbook.com

 

Through any stage of life, pets can serve as a best friend or even help replace a child. Many find comfort and joy in taking care of and being around pets, whether it’s a dog, a cat, or a hamster. For the lonely Baby Boomer, pets can become an even greater source of companionship and comfort. If you have never thought of getting a pet or had your doubts, consider these advantages and disadvantages.

The Good

Having a pet can be very fulfilling. They make very good companions.
They give you something to care for and about.
They are a wonderful way to forge new friendships with owners of the same or similar pets.
Some pets can also serve as protection for your home. If you live alone, having a good watch dog would be a great investment.
Pets like dogs are a good way to get some exercise while you take them for a walk.
The Bad

Consider the state of your health before owning a pet. Be sure that you are not allergic to certain types of pets.  Some Boomers may find that the grooming and upkeep for a certain kind of pet is more than they can handle at their age. Do not put your health at risk! It is, also, important to try to think ahead about how your relationship with your pet may be affected in the future.
Some pets can be expensive to keep so be sure to know the general costs for its food, bath, etc.
The Final Decision

When you’re thinking of owning a pet it is important to know as many details about how much they eat, how big they will grow, how long they live and the costs associated with their care. The type of pet a person has depends on their personal taste and also health factors. Some like dogs and others, cats; some like hamsters and others, birds. It really depends on what type of animal you think you are capable of loving and caring for. No matter what type of animal you choose, make sure you are able to bond with your pet. Pets have personalities too, and sometimes owners are not able to bond with the pet they choose.

If you find that your relationship with your pet is not working out, do not be afraid to return the pet (if you can) or find someone else who may be looking for a pet to own. Make sure you explain why you are selling or giving up your pet to the prospective buyer. Do not settle for what you “kind of” want, but aim to be fully satisfied with your decision. It could change your whole life.

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Baby Boomers FYI: Music Of The Next Generation

Sunday, January 11th, 2009

What Your Grandchildren Are Listening To
teenagers and music

By Boomeryearbook.com

Each year, new music sensations come onto the scene and attempt to leave a lasting impression with the music industry. I’m sure you have listened to and seen your fair share of them as a young Baby Boomer. Today, your grandchildren have a wide variety of music genres available at the click of a mouse with each having its own loyal followers. To be considered a hip grandparent, it is essential that you have some knowledgeable about the music that makes up the soundtrack of your grandchildren’s iPods.

Music Obsessed Generation

The creation of hi-tech music players such as iPods and MP3 players has caused a generational obsession by music lovers because of the opportunity to personalize and privatize their music selection even more. The genres that are popular, mainly because they are highlighted in the media include Pop, Rap / Hip-Hop, R&B, and Rock & Roll. Each genre contains artistes and songs that even your 8 year old grandchild may know.

What Are They?

For those Boomers who are not familiar with these genres, it can be confusing trying to figure out which song and artiste fits under which category. Here is a little cheat sheet that may come in handy:

Pop – The earliest use of the term “pop music” was used to describe music that had popular appeal. The term is now used to describe a type of music; one that is upbeat and rhythmic, appealing to mainstream with catchy hooks that may come from a group as well as a solo artist. Many pop singers have come and gone. Some that are popular today include Britney Spears, Justin Timberlake, and the boy band, Take 5.

Rhythm & Blues – Also known as R&B, this genre was originally created by African-Americans who combined blues and jazz. It opened the doors to many other types of music and the title has been used by many in the past. Today it can be considered a modern version of soul, and songs usually focus on loving that special someone. Some popular artists include John Legend, Usher, and Mariah Carey.

Rap / Hip-Hop – Rap or Hip Hop originated in the 70’s in the Bronx, NY. It gained popularity predominantly among African-Americans and Latino-Americans. However, today Rap and Hip-Hop are embraced by all cultures worldwide. Rappers can be described as fast talk poets because their lyrics usually flow smoothly and rhyme. The reputation of rap music has gotten marred by the degrading and violent lyrics that have become the norm nowadays, and many songs are not for the ears of an adult let alone your young grandchild’s. However, there are the few who stay true to its roots. Some popular rappers include Lil Wayne, Eminem, Young Joc and Jay-Z.

Rock – Rock music originates from the Rock and Roll of the late 40’s. This music is known for its loud guitars, drums, and singing. There is a couple of traditional rock and roll bands from the 60’s and 70’s still making music, and the younger crowd has embraced them as well. Contemporary Rock music today is still loud and head banging, some a lot more than others. Their topics range from love to everyday actions and there are many bands to choose from. Some popular rock bands include Fall Out Boy, The White Stripes, The Killers, and Audioslave.

There are many more genres that your grandchild may be tapped into, so ask them about it. Start a casual conversation and you may open a channel of communication that you never thought you would reach with them. You may be surprised; you might, also, like what you hear!

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