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The courtroom is a place of order and respect, whether you do not entirely in agreement with your ex-husband or your husband’s Lauer the lawyer of your ex-spouse, your appearance in court obligates you to present yourself in a respectable and pleasant matter. Regardless of whether you are on the verge of an emotional breakdown, you must uphold yourself in a manner respecting of the court judge and his court.
Your taste in clothing can still influence your appropriate choice in clothing on your court appearance; however, you must be informed to dress on the conservative side of your ensemble. Knee-high skirts are a usual choice over a blouse or suit. It must, however, not in any shade of any “loud” color, try to keep them in neutral shades of navy blue, grey or brown. Bright shades of pink, red and purple are definitely a no-no.
Stilettos are expectedly not to be chosen to be worn (if you could still sport them) a shoe with a three-inch heel would be appropriate. No open-toe shoe or sandal should be worn in court.
As to jewelry and make-up, the keyword is minimal. Wearing a ring on each finger with a necklace and big looped earrings is definitely a deal breaker especially if you’re asking for alimony or child support. Choice on the makeup to be worn and color will definitely have to be toned down. No blue eye shadow should be worn. If you’re thinking about dressing up sexy to get favours from the judge, whether the judge is a fellow member of the baby boomer generation or not, the idea should be completely stricken off a person’s mind.
Hats should not be worn in court; instead, wearing your hair up or in a braid is recommendable.
You don’t need to be flashy or ornate with what you wear in court, try to find that look where you don’t feel ugly but otherwise not looking hootchy either.
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For the baby boomers coming to close a relationship at this point should be unbearable. It is important that you present your case and you get the issues well pointed out, dressing may get you to a point where you will be favored by the court. It is not important at this point how your ex-husband see you at this time, you’re concern is being heard and understood.
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