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Second Careers and How to Deal with Them

Friday, February 5th, 2010

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By BoomerYearbook.com

Baby boomers approaching their mid fifties tend to take stock, with a view to planning as comfortable a retirement as possible in circumstances that may not be financially rosy. The average baby boomer comes from a generation accustomed to getting the best that money can buy and a retirement spent economizing on groceries is hardly ideal.

Typically, baby boomers spend only a little time cursing the government and the banks and the oh-so-clever money men who got them into this mess, choosing instead to focus on a solution to subsidize their income in later years.

Baby boomer professionals are firm believers in getting things done the right way and paying the right man for the right job. This does not mean, however, that older operatives cannot learn new skills – or that picking up a pension following a successful career means enforced retirement. Many energetic and super motivated over fifties choose to take up a second career out of a desire to remain active but the truth is that the majority seek work to sponsor their ‘retirement’.

An augmented income for seniors can be a big financial help and make all the difference to enjoying retirement to the full. Find more information about second careers online. That second income might be used for grocery treats; for taking foreign holidays and exploring Rome and the Far East instead of being confined to vacations nearer to home by budget limitations; or it might simply cover membership of the golf club, which might otherwise be unaffordable. Whatever the reason for re-applying the nose to the grindstone, the choices are vast and varied:

• Medical professionals such as trained and well qualified nurses might consider a new career in child minding or home nursing, either professionally or privately, both of which require formal checks. ‘Attending’ as a supervisor for first aid training is a job traditionally reserved for qualified personnel but the role carries none of the pressures of a full time hospital position. Company nurses are sometimes recruited from retired medical staff and happily spend their time mostly in administration on a smaller but nonetheless welcome salary.
• The real estate business can sometimes provide employment for retired quantity or chartered surveyors; builders; decorators and ex employees of land offices. Experience is valuable and potential employers are delighted to pay a lower premium for someone with know-how.
• The internet has brought the era of the home based worker to the attention of prospective retirees with a cash flow problem. Outsourcing is a great way to start up a company or work for someone who is willing to pay an agreed rate. Outsourced jobs include engineering design; web work; writing and translation services; graphic design; illustration services and even ‘virtual’ assistance and secretarial duties. The advantages are obvious: there are few overheads; you can pick and choose your contracts without the conventional restrictions of the workplace and you can go to work in your pyjamas if you feel like it.

Freelancing

Freelance contracting offers so many obvious advantages for baby boomers: there is nobody to tell you how to run your job; you can cut off a relationship with any client whom you feel does not offer a satisfying work experience (although good commercial manners should always govern behavior in that direction); there is total freedom of enterprise, allowing clever contractors to charge what the market will allow and there are no restrictions to branching into other areas of expertise.

No corporate ladder! How great is that!

There are some reputable outsourcing websites to explore but remember to exercise caution when trawling the internet for work: never part with personal information and read terms and conditions carefully before entering into contracts.

The Psychological Article on Second Careers and How to Deal With Them is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Second Careers and Where to Find Them

Friday, February 5th, 2010

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Second Careers and Where to Find Them

By BoomerYearbook.com

The age of the computer has brought us freedom: freedom of easy reference; the capability to source information previously available only in libraries or by lengthy letter enquiry. Wanting a second career is only the start of the journey for determined baby boomers. Finding the right occupation is a challenge but with the help of the internet it is possible to ‘reassess’ your talents and skills before getting out there to look for that special second string to your bow.

It is always a good idea to interact with others and make use of forums where ambitious fifties gather to swap interesting information. Other people’s ideas provide a springboard for your own so take the opportunity to learn how others are getting on in the job world.

A new career might be necessary but not necessarily daunting. Baby boomers have a special gift for insisting on the best and somehow getting it against all odds. Being the ‘new guy’ on the other side of fifty can be both financially rewarding and amusing if you approach the situation with:

• A sense of humor
• A determination to enjoy your new working life.
• A positive outlook. Negativity is the enemy of any successful venture, especially starting over in a new career late in life

From the employers’ point of view, a mature employee with years of valuable experience can be a huge bonus. Offices and factories are operated with subtle differences but the fundamental rules and guidelines of commerce are similar in most areas of the manufacturing and service industries. Additionally, forward thinking companies are beginning to appreciate that mature baby boomer staff members offer great free training resources for ‘newbies’ on a ‘buddy’ system.

There are retirees who look forward to widening their horizons by stepping into an entirely new profession at ground level. Trainees, even mature ones, are under little pressure to perform and this period of learning can be the most fun a rookie will have for years to come! This is possibly the only opportunity one will ever have to take an entirely different direction in life. Throwing away the opportunity to pick up a pension earned over twenty years to pursue a new career during one’s thirties and forties can be a strong incentive to do the time; as a result, many wait a long time to switch careers and look forward to embracing that long nurtured dream.

Finding the training

Stepping into the unknown can be worrysome – especially without any inkling of what to expect. Training information online is profuse, with advice on how baby boomers might obtain instruction, creditation, qualifications and the all important confidence to step into a brand new World.

The money is certainly an incentive but there is little point in dreading getting out of bed in the morning to face a job one cannot stand! Finding the right role that utilizes individual skills is imperative to success and happiness in a second career. Tempting as it is to find work that is totally different it is more practical to perform a role that stretches one’s talents and skills to avoid losing them through lack of use.

For those who want to go back to a job but lack the imagination or know how to source the correct type of work, there are consultants and recruitment packages in abundance, both in government sponsored programs and online. Pick one! But be sure to explore all the possibilities of one thing before you hop to another possibility. The market is huge so detailed research is important to get an accurate idea of what is out there and whether it offers what you are looking for. Where training is offered, seize the opportunity to learn new skills or update those you already have.

Pension issues

Bear in mind when considering a return to the workplace that a state sourced pension will be affected in terms of tax; likely to be withdrawn entirely or at least significantly reduced while you are earning. Tax implications are clearly laid out on government websites: make stringent enquiries before launching your new career.

The Psychological Article on Second Careers and Where to Find Them is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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Baby Boomers Retiring in Merry England

Saturday, November 21st, 2009
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Articles from Boomeryearbook.com explore the fascinating and varied behavioral patterns that occur when families are affected by outside events, or by the impact of the modern World; the challenges faced in the new age and the hurdles that must be addressed: The Boomeryearbook.com Guide and Coaching Strategy for the baby boomer generation.

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Baby boomers have been raised on tales of their fathers’ and grandfathers’ experiences of wartime England and some of the stories of the warmth of English hospitality and the good old English pub scene are by no means exaggerated. There is nowhere quite like England when it is the height of summer and the strawberries are in season: lunch on the lawn under the Chestnut tree; cricket teas; village fairs.

England is certainly all of this and more but there are some drawbacks to English life, not the least of which is the weather which can cast a damp pall over just about everything, making it impossible to plan ahead for a barbecue and edging a grey tinge around even the most enjoyable social event. English weather is unpredictable at best and an English summer during a bad year can be non existent, constantly battered by rain and wind from April through to September. Psychological articles recommend that anyone with a tendency to depression or suffering with SAD (Seasonal Affected Disorder) should avoid the English climate at all cost.

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Retiring in England: BoomerYearbook.com

That being said, the upside of English life must be the culture scene, with just about every town and village in the country involved in its own celebration of English heritage and history. The larger cities offer a wealth of stage plays; galleries; exhibitions and museums and English Heritage provides an incredible list of stately homes to visit for those whose tastes run to trawling through several hundred years of tapestries and family artefacts.

Most American baby boomers retiring to the UK take the precaution of prescribing to private health cover and enjoy top quality medical attention in the several hundred superior clinics and hospitals all over the country. The UK health service has received severe criticism in terms of waiting lists and sub standard care but in fact psychological articles advise that the standards are not that bad and certainly private clinics have an excellent reputation.

The price of property in the UK depends on location. Rental can be expensive but in general the property market is seen as a sound long term investment for prospective baby boomers who wish to retire to good old ‘Blighty’. The traditional thatched country cottage with roses around the porch can be costly but British housing is well controlled and still represents a reasonably safe purchase for those who yearn for a social life in the local British pub and a safe and secure, albeit slightly soggy retirement…!

The Psychological Article on Baby Boomers Retiring in Merry England is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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The Baby Boomers Retirement Plan in Thailand

Saturday, November 21st, 2009
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Boomers Retiring in Thailand: BoomerYearbook.com

Articles from Boomeryearbook.com explore the fascinating and varied behavioral patterns that occur when families are affected by outside events, or by the impact of the modern World; the challenges faced in the new age and the hurdles that must be addressed: The Boomeryearbook.com Guide and Coaching Strategy for the baby boomer generation.


By BoomerYearbook.com

One enterprising lady who recently decided to retire to Thailand is saving diligently to sponsor a beachside home in her dream location and expressed the desire to spend her final days in the ‘Land of Smiles’ and eventually when she dies to be wrapped in a sail and gently floated out to sea in a candlelit ceremony! Baby boomers, along with everyone else, receive a warm welcome in Thailand and the retired American community has expanded in recent years, prompting the Thai government to consider various affordable financial facilities for Americans wishing to buy their own property.

Thailand is proud of its incredible beaches; lush forests and impressive mountains. The lifestyle in Thailand is to die for, with its warm climate; low cost of living; wide use of English as the country’s second language and plenty of opportunities for laid back entertainment.

Baby boomers who have worked in Thailand know that is a popular holiday destination with the rest of Asia and many Americans who spent part of their career working in Asia choose Thailand for their retirement. The country is quite simply gorgeous, with beautiful gardens, a perfect living environment and an impressive cosmopolitan culture. Baby boomers with the right financial criteria can attain a retirement visa to allow them to settle permanently in Thailand.

Psychological articles recommend that medical facilities in Thailand are of a high standard and there are plenty of high quality clinics and hospitals to choose from all over the country. An international ISO certificate may be applied for to entitle attendance and most medical conditions are catered to.

Local color is impressive: the fabric markets are a must for lady baby boomers with a taste for opulence – Thai silk is not as cheap as it once was but every bit as beautiful and tactile. In Thailand it is possible to find fantastic 3D wall art and expertly carved furniture at a fraction of the cost in the US and many visitors to Thailand take advantage of opportunities to ship large quantities of local furniture back home.

Psychological articles note that for many, the transition from tourist to retiree in Thailand is a gradual one. Most take the time to explore the country in detail before making the all important decision on whether to retire there. It is quite useful that property rental is low, allowing prospective retirees to ‘try before they buy’.

The Psychological Article on The Baby Boomers Retirement Plan in Thailand is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Baby Boomers Retiring in New Zealand

Saturday, November 21st, 2009
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Articles from Boomeryearbook.com explore the fascinating and varied behavioral patterns that occur when families are affected by outside events, or by the impact of the modern World; the challenges faced in the new age and the hurdles that must be addressed: The Boomeryearbook.com Guide and Coaching Strategy for the baby boomer generation.

By BoomerYearbook.com

New Zealand is literally the end of the World and it’s only minus point could be that from here, there is nowhere else to go; apart from Australia, that is, which is still a couple of thousand kilometres away! Baby boomers considering retiring in New Zealand are usually doing so because they have a passion for outdoor activities and a healthy lifestyle.

The old joke is that New Zealand closes at ten every evening and there is certainly some truth in this, so baby boomers seeking a hot night life should rule New Zealand out as a viable option – the only place to find nightclubs and trendy restaurants in New Zealand are in the larger cities such as Auckland or Wellington.

So why would anyone want to go there, you might ask? Psychological articles teach us that quite simply New Zealand must be the most beautiful country in the World; a paradise of contrasts where you can sunbathe in the snow – swim in the lake in the morning and ski a virgin slope in the afternoon; fish for rainbow trout for lunch or take a white water ride if you’re the type who likes your hair either blowing in a fresh breeze or standing on end in fright.

One of the first things baby boomers might notice on arriving in New Zealand is the light – it is dazzling and everywhere you look, the impressive landscape is showcased by the light effect that makes the whole country look like a picture postcard with vibrant color – the blues look bluer somehow, the greens look greener and the sheep look whiter!

New Zealanders are the most hospitable people in the World and American baby boomers always find a warm welcome. If you stay at one of their houses, however, be prepared to be coaxed to stay six months – they will entice you to come for ‘tea’ (yeah, come round for tea, it’s not far) which consists of half a sheep and a large helping of pavlova washed down with gallons of tea, before inviting you to stay for the sheep shearing party the following month rather than return home (oh, you can’t travel all that way today, it’s miles away…) One of the World’s most beautiful and genuinely affectionate people, New Zealanders will give you their last dollar whether you need it or not!

New Zealand is not the cheapest place in the World to retire and in fact the cost of living is quite high, probably on a par with the US. The local restaurant scene is pretty limited but the food itself is gorgeous with fresh, home grown and super sized ingredients readily available along with superior food hygiene standards and control. Property is reasonably priced and psychological articles recommend that the health service is of a high standard.

The Psychological Article on Baby Boomers Retiring in New Zealand is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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Baby Boomers Retiring to The Caribbean

Friday, November 20th, 2009
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Articles from Boomeryearbook.com explore the fascinating and varied behavioral patterns that occur when families are affected by outside events, or by the impact of the modern World; the challenges faced in the new age and the hurdles that must be addressed: The Boomeryearbook.com Guide and Coaching Strategy for the baby boomer generation.

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Some of the most fantastic beach locations in the World are found alongside Caribbean waters and the homes for sale in Caribbean locations are certainly impressive, with outdoor living a feature that comes as standard. Some offer private beach access and many baby boomers retiring in the Caribbean employ staff to make their retirement experience both comfortable and convenient.

Retiring in Trinidad, for example, can be as expensive or as budget-friendly as you please, depending on your financial position and frame of mind. You can buy an opulent beach side villa after the style of the famous Oliver Messel, one of the pioneers of the outdoor sitting room and a style guru worshipped by celebrities worldwide, or a modest two-bedroomed apartment on a sleepy street featuring fruit stalls and market traders.

One of the things baby boomers notice when they retire in the Caribbean is that if they arrive feeling slightly jaded and frayed around the edges, they very soon wake up that a new part of their lives is just beginning and become filled with enthusiasm and energy; psychological articles show that this is simply a side benefit of achieving a healthier and stress free lifestyle.

Life is certainly slower in this part of the World and any signs of hurry are quickly brought under control by the sunny smiles of the locals who are quick to assure newcomers that whatever is going to happen can happen tomorrow, so chill out and enjoy the sun, the exquisite local cuisine and the beach. Taking life slowly is an art form here, which likely explains the absence of stress in most people’s personal outlook.

American baby boomers are welcomed with open arms to Caribbean shores. The cost of living is low, around a third of what it costs to survive in the US, perhaps slightly more depending on whether you have expensive tastes! The weather is warm all the year through, so those living in retirement in the Caribbean tend to become quickly accustomed to wearing fewer clothes.

The health system in Trinidad and other Caribbean destinations has improved in recent years but is still not up to the standard Americans expect. Private cover is therefore strongly recommended for baby boomers considering the Caribbean as a retirement option and anyone with a poor health record or ongoing health issues might be better advised to seek an alternative retirement plan that includes a reliable local health service.

Psychological articles note that stress levels in the Caribbean characteristically low this year and are forecast to remain that way for the foreseeable future!

The Psychological Article on Baby Boomers Retiring to The Caribbean is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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Baby Boomers Aloha: Retiring in Hawaii

Friday, November 20th, 2009

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Articles from Boomeryearbook.com explore the fascinating and varied behavioral patterns that occur when families are affected by outside events, or by the impact of the modern World; the challenges faced in the new age and the hurdles that must be addressed: The Boomeryearbook.com Guide and Coaching Strategy for the baby boomer generation.


By Boomeryearbook.com

With an average temperature of around 75º and a low crime rate, the beautiful tropical paradise of Hawaii draws plenty of interest for retiring baby boomers. There is enough rainfall in Hawaii to keep it green and colorful all the year round and Hawaii is renowned for its vibrant and abundant flowers. Definitely up there when it comes to providing retirees with a gentle and civilized retirement haven, Hawaii is encircled with more than 100 top starred beaches and has it all when it comes to outdoor living and an excellent quality of life.

There is something magnetic about Hawaii: perhaps the attraction is the climate, encouraging residents to slop around in beach sandals, shorts and brightly flowered shirts and muumuus. For tired and aging executives who have spent their careers battling with the commuter traffic in New York or Chicago and yearn for an absence of pressure, Hawaii has peace and ‘laid back living’ in abundance, all just a plane ride away.

On the practical side, there is no way Hawaii could be described as a bargain retirement zone. Many of the good things in life are free but few of them are on offer in Hawaii! However, for many baby boomers, cheap retirement is not what they are seeking and they place a premium on good facilities such as good quality health care, excellent social life and a high standard of American styled property in great golf or beachside locations. Psychological articles rate Hawaii as one of the healthiest locations in the World.

Baby boomers tend to seek retirement that offers activity as well as the opportunity to chill out and Hawaii has a wealth of water sports to choose from, including scuba diving; surfing; sailing and spectacular fishing. The wonderful weather brings out the best in most people and in general there is air of casual hospitality associated with Hawaii.

For those who are looking for a little piece of heaven in retirement but do not wish to leave the United States, Hawaii is the place to settle with its unmistakable air of beachside elegance and its beautiful homes that feature wide terraces to make the best of one of the best climates in the World.

Psychological articles tell us that baby boomers determined to stay in the United States in retirement represent a huge part of the Hawaiian community and love the islands and the country club style social life that is part of the Hawaiian lifestyle.

The Psychological Article on Baby Boomers Aloha: Retiring in Hawaii is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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Supporting Junior: The Ingratitude of Sons and Daughters: Boomers Helping Unemployed Family

Thursday, November 19th, 2009

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Articles from Boomeryearbook.com explore the fascinating and varied behavioral patterns that occur when families are affected by outside events, or by the impact of the modern World; the challenges faced in the new age and the hurdles that must be addressed: The Boomeryearbook.com Guide and Coaching Strategy for the baby boomer generation.


By Boomeryearbook.com

A working life can be rewarding, especially when one is able to reach a position of seniority, earning the respect and remuneration associated with a successful career. Psychological articles show us that if you want something done efficiently it is always more effectively done by a busy person rather than someone who is unfamiliar with multi tasking.

The same principle applies to work ethics: people who have become accustomed to a pressured working life can take on extra work more effectively than someone who might not have been exposed to a regular work routine. In our modern employment market, the work ethic is becoming undermined by the absence of strong job opportunities. A great number of younger people, on being disappointed in the job market, rely on the income of parents or even grandparents to enable them to make ends meet.

Baby boomers with large families will sometimes find they are better qualified to earn a higher salary than their children and grandchildren and so continue to work long after the conventional retirement age, due to what they see as necessity; to support the family financially through an economic downturn.

Psychological articles state that many of the children and grandchildren who are the recipients of baby boomers’ generosity in providing funding for food; clothes; pocket change and other expenses, display a woeful lack of appreciation for the sacrifices being made of their behalf.

One of the main reasons for this seeming lack of gratitude is simply familiarity: people who have not had the experience of a responsible working environment will rarely understand the effort that is required to hold down a job in a competitive market or even appreciate that they are privileged to receive necessities bought with baby boomers’ hard earned cash. In fact, they are often so used to receiving money in this way that the idea of earning their own living is novel in the extreme.

To say that this bread winning structure within a family is destructive is to understate the long term effects, not only on family relationships but also on baby boomers’ physical and emotional health. When a person reaches the age of sixty or more, a natural slowing down process should commence prior to retiring. It is not acceptable that older family members should automatically become liable to undertake a lengthier career for the sake of younger individuals without either the ability or the opportunity to earn their own living.

The Psychological Article on Supporting Junior: The Ingratitude of Sons and Daughters: Boomers Helping Unemployed Family is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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Making a Living at Seventy: People past Retirement Age Going Back to Work to Help Out Younger Family Members

Thursday, November 19th, 2009

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Articles from Boomeryearbook.com explore the fascinating and varied behavioral patterns that occur when families are affected by outside events, or by the impact of the modern World; the challenges faced in the new age and the hurdles that must be addressed: The Boomeryearbook.com Guide and Coaching Strategy for the baby boomer generation.


By Boomeryearbook.com

We all love our children. We all love our families and extended families. Regard and respect are traditionally a two way exchange and problems within an affectionate family unit are aired and shared, often resulting in a combined effort to address financial difficulties. Baby boomers who are already in middle or older age often volunteer to help younger family members out of financial hardship, making certain sacrifices in terms of their own freedom and quality of life.

The modern World is in bad shape when it comes to employment and many of the younger generation are unable to find work. Occasionally a strange equation surfaces, where an older member of the family is eminently more employable than a younger one, leading to certain decisions having an impact on baby boomers who should be thinking about permanent retirement rather than taking on full time work.

Psychological articles explore the elderly problems that an extended career can have on the older family member. Although the process can in some ways be positive in that a prolonged exposure to a younger generation of working colleagues can help keep the elderly mind active, other physical strains can be exhausting for baby boomers who are ready for a pipe and slippers rather than a keyboard and mouse.

For people whose career included a degree of physical fitness, such as lumberjacks; mechanics; truck drivers and haulage contractors, a return to work can be out of the question so an alternative working role dictates learning new skills late in life, sometimes in a pressured environment. The resulting lack in confidence can produce feelings of inadequacy and stress and lead to other psychological and elderly problems.

Baby boomers who might have had an enjoyable working atmosphere in their chosen career might have a totally different experience working in a modern office or factory on their return to the workplace, souring their perception rewarding work. As the end often justifies the means, baby boomers ‘stick it out’ to get debts paid on behalf of younger family members such as sons or daughters. Tolerating a poor working environment can lead to elderly problems such as feelings of being exploited, despite the choice to return to work being their own.

Worse yet is that psychological articles show us that younger family members being helped in this way by older relatives are often less than grateful for the sacrifices being made on their behalf.

The Psychological Article on Making a Living at Seventy: People past Retirement Age Going Back to Work to Help Out Younger Family Members is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!
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Lowering The Bar: Accepting a Less Active Role in Family Life: Matriarchs Handing Over the Reins

Thursday, November 19th, 2009

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Articles from Boomeryearbook.com explore the fascinating and varied behavioral patterns that occur when families are affected by outside events, or by the impact of the modern World; the challenges faced in the new age and the hurdles that must be addressed: The Boomeryearbook.com Guide and Coaching Strategy for the baby boomer generation.


By Boomeryearbook.com

When we are in our twenties and thirties and have an army of children running riot all over the house, we embrace a chaotic existence with both arms and love every moment of our children’s youth and exuberance – well almost every moment – perhaps we could all do without the novelty hair cutting incidents and the moments when the dog has toothpaste in his ears.

As baby boomers age, they experience a slowing down that is not entirely unwelcome but none the less, some of us have difficulty stepping aside to let younger family members take responsibilities we have been accustomed to over many years. For matriarch baby boomers, especially those with larger families and armfuls of grandchildren, it is often more difficult.

Naturally, the busier family life has been, the greater the contrast when children leave home to start families of their own. This silence in the family nest can cause a number of problems, according to psychological articles, such as depression associated with loss; feelings of inadequacy; loss of confidence and any number of emotional difficulties.

Baby boomers who are matriarchs with large families find shopping and cooking second nature by the time their children are grown. For someone who is used to feeding a table of ten, there are certain adjustments to make and scouring cookbooks for meals for two can be a sad affair. Just when we thought we were getting used to the idea, our daughters start inviting us around for family lunch on Sunday and doing a better job of it than we did! Aaagh!

Watching our daughters and sons take charge can be a bitter sweet experience; with our emotions swinging between pride as we realize how well we taught our children the life skills they need to raise a family of their own and sadness that we are no longer a vital part of their new family structure.

Psychological articles that deal with the subject of loss note that this period of baby boomer family life can be among the most stressful, as feelings of uselessness overwhelm our determined efforts to not be affected by our new status of ‘part timer’.

Baby boomers who are going through this difficult time will sometimes find the birth of a new grandchild will provide the role they are waiting for. The transition from Mom to Grandma can be fraught with feelings of being ‘usurped by an interloper’, albeit a much loved one, but in fact taking a backstage role is part of the natural evolvement of family life.

The Psychological Article on Lowering The Bar: Accepting a Less Active Role in Family Life: Matriarchs Handing Over the Reins is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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