Archive for the ‘Sex Elderly Problems’ Category

8. Baby Boomers Leading the Gray Sex Revolution: Yeah Baby!

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

By Dr. Karen for Boomeryearbook.com
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Baby boomers continue to shock the socks off the rest of the World by producing an amazing sexual performance even in their middle and old age! Psychological articles ask: what is it about them that they have this intense sexual relationship continuing well into their middle age and retirement years?

The generations that preceded the baby boom did everything in a predictable fashion, producing their children and raising them to be modest and fearful of convention. Along came baby boomers and blew convention sky high with their sexual revolution of the fifties and sixties, flying in the face of tradition and daring to expound free love and dispense with any moral code that seemed to them to be a waste of time.

Now here they are in the ‘naughties’, blatantly inventing gray sex and showing everyone how great it is to hang up the walking stick and be sexually active whenever the mood takes them!

The boomer mind set is such that they basically do whatever they feel like doing whenever they feel like doing it. This is the seed that grew a generation of activists and free love advocates back in the good old days.

They are certainly a generation of individuals and have no compunction about nailing their sexuality to the mast and declaring war on the aches and pains and associated creaks of old age with a resolve that says: ‘There might be snow on the roof but there’s nothing wrong with the boiler in the cellar’ – or words to that effect.

One of the main attributes of baby boomers is their endless ability to be intelligently resourceful and this is what keeps their sexual interests bubbling well into old age. They will follow any lead that promises to get them what they want and when elderly problems get in the way of their sexual gratification, they find ways to get around difficulties rather than take the path of acceptance and settle for celibate comfort. Their first question on discovering a sexual difficulty is: how do I fix it? – Never: how do I live with it?

Psychological articles observe that the gray sex revolution continues to puzzle and fascinate psychologists everywhere, as elderly baby boomers of sixty; seventy and eighty consistently outdo every other generation in the bedroom and cheerfully refuse to be suppressed by age, infirmity or convention. Yeah baby!

Baby boomers having this kind of problem will be vulnerable to all kinds of quackery in their desperation to rid themselves of what they see as a scourge on their lives. Better to take the professional path and be sure of a straight forward and safe solution…

Baby Boomers Leading the Gray Sex Revolution: Yeah Baby! is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Sexual Enhancement Supplements: Are They Safe and Do They Work?

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

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By Dr. Karen for Boomeryearbook.com

One of the worst aspects of experiencing problems in the bedroom is that one is vulnerable to some of the most ruthless quacks trading quick fix preparations to perk up your sex life. With the introduction of the internet, it has become possible for baby boomers to buy any number of lotions and potions guaranteed to boost sexual libido and eliminate all difficulties instantly, regardless of what caused the problem or the general health of the patient.

Psychological articles clearly tell us that unfortunately, there is a low possibility of any of these miracle cures being effective, whether they are homeopathic, herbal or chemical.

A bottle marked ‘Dr Love’s Miracle Cure for Impotence’ is all too obviously a commercial hype intended to profit from someone’s sexual shortcomings and fools nobody – other preparations, however, are more subtly marketed, sometimes under marketing labels that infer their performance is somehow endorsed by the medical profession. In fact, few sexual enhancement supplements have been properly tested and some are even dangerous.

Legitimate medical interventions should be sought under the advice of a medical practitioner and might include injections of devices to encourage the restoration of normal function but some baby boomers having difficulties choose instead to experiment with dietary supplements.

The market for such substances is huge and millions of andropausal baby boomers are among the most eager customers to try out the array of products on offer. Some preparations are a compound of harmless herbs, including flower pollen and goat weed, spices and sweetening agents and do little harm other than produce a big fat zero in the performance department. Others can do real harm, especially to those who are allergic to the ingredients used.

The answer to the question on whether such preparations are safe is that some are and some are not. Do they work? Nope – not as a rule – and in the case of those who have had some success after taking sexual enhancement supplements, psychological articles explain that this is invariably attributed to the placebo effect.

The only effective solution to the kind of difficulties experienced during andropause and through other crises in the male baby boomers’ sexual experience is to seek proper medical help from an appropriately registered medical practitioner with decent credentials.

Baby boomers having this kind of problem will be vulnerable to all kinds of quackery in their desperation to rid themselves of what they see as a scourge on their lives. Better to take the professional path and be sure of a straight forward and safe solution…

Sexual Enhancement Supplements: Are They Safe and Do They Work? is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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5. The Andropause: How it Affects Baby Boomers

Saturday, November 7th, 2009


By Dr. Karen for Boomeryearbook.com

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By Dr. Karen for Boomeryearbook.com

Baby boomers’ main problem when it comes to dealing with the andropause is that they are prime targets for this mid life condition due to their age. The andopause is more commonly referred to as the ‘male menopause’ and some of the symptoms are indeed miserable and cause a great many men considerable distress.

Psychological articles acknowledge that many men go through the andropause feeling their mood swings, lack of sexual libido and general ‘touchiness’ are due to ‘getting old’ and rarely seek help. Women going through the menopause are far more likely to seek medical help for their symptoms, in much the same way as women are more likely to buy a pill for a headache.

Interestingly, although menopause is commonly held to be responsible for many women’s poor behavior and general silliness, men going through the same process of mid life hormonal imbalance are rarely excused their moodiness, possible because their condition is not recognized by the men themselves. All men experience a reduction in bioavailable testosterone but some men’s levels dip lower, resulting in andropause symptoms.

The symptoms of andropause include a reduction in body and facial hair; low libido; insomnia; depression, fatigue; a tendency to anger; possibly osteoporisis; night sweats; aches and pains hot flushes and general low health. Some baby boomers eventually visit their doctor complaining of being ‘over the hill’.

The treatment for andropause is traditionally with TRT – Testosterone Replacement Therapy – the male version of a woman being treated with HRT, if you like. In fact, a man who combines TRT with a lifestyle change that includes increased exercise and a healthy diet can enjoy a dramatic reduction in andropausal symptoms. TRT overhauls the body, increasing lean muscle mass, reversing fat accumulation and replenishing hormone growth, leading to an improved sex life.

Baby boomers suffering with andropausal symptoms are more likely to suffer than their female partners who will race off to the doctor at the first hot flush. Psychological articles observe that baby boomers who seek early TRT treatment for andropause are more likely to conquer the depression that accompanies the condition.

Most physicians will recommend a healthy regime of exercise for a man suffering with andropausal symptoms, as exercise helps to strengthen the presence of healthy hormones, reduce fat and improve muscle tone.

The secret is to consult a doctor for positive help at earliest opportunity. Men who procrastinate over visiting their doctor and continue to struggle with the symptoms of ‘male menopause’ suffer needlessly sometimes for years before finally seeking professional help.

The Andropause: How it Affects Baby Boomersis part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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6. Life After Sex: Do Baby Boomers find Other Interest Rewarding When Their Sex Lives Become Less Active?

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

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By Dr. Karen for Boomeryearbook.com

One of the more interesting aspects of baby boomers lives is that in fact very few of them lose interest in sex as they get older. Studies in psychological articles show that far from reducing in interest, some baby boomers interests escalate in their retirement years and they are happily making sexual innovations and seeking ways to spice up their sex lives rather than giving in to the lethargy of advancing years.

Typical of baby boomers, there is evidence that shows they are more likely to explore sexual alternatives should they experience ‘difficulties in the bedroom’ than most generations. Lucky for lady boomers, a man suffering difficulties will be more likely to find resourceful ways to satisfy his partner if he is a baby boomer than if he is not!

It is true that the boomer generation has a wide range of interest and pastimes that they look forward to indulging late in life. When you are busy holding down a challenging career and raising a family, there is hardly enough time in the day to fit in all the things you would like to do.

As we get older, time can be both a blessing and a problem. We have more time to pursue our interest and hobbies but unfortunately for some of us, not as much time as we would like to have left to enjoy our new expertise! Baby boomers tend to make the best of things, however, and certainly new things are embraced with enthusiasm.

That being said, few boomers would agree that their hobbies and interests replace their sex lives. Elderly boomers are among some of the most sexually active groups and when problems arise, boomers are more likely to seek professional help to eradicate the difficulty than some other generic groups.

The boomer generation has made some of the most dramatic changes the World has seen and continues to astound with its determination to make the most of everything the World has to offer, including sexuality! Their uninhibited approach to sex drove the sexual revolution of the sixties and they are not about to give up the driving seat just yet.

Psychological articles show us that other generations, including the generation that came after the baby boom, settle more readily into a hum drum existence and will likely show the World a sedate old age – boomers, however, continue to be more rock concert than rocking chair.

Life After Sex: Do Baby Boomers find Other Interest Rewarding When Their Sex Lives Become Less Active?is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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4. Menopause: The Symptoms and How to Deal With Them

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

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By Dr. Karen for Boomeryearbook.com

The menopausal years can be so easy for some baby boomers and others live through a nightmare as they try to come to terms with what they see as their loss. The menopause is simply the ceasing of a woman’s ability to have children. For some women, this ability to reproduce is all important and she goes through a form of bereavement as her body changes and she undergoes a roller coaster of emotion to try to accept her new physicality.

There is no rhyme or reason for the intensity, or otherwise, of the symptoms of the menopause in individuals. Some are fortunate enough to experience no symptoms whatever, other than the gradual cessation of periods, while other baby boomers go through a hell of hot flushes; depression; low libido; low self esteem; insomnia; excessive itching and a plethora of other nasty side effects.

Psychological articles note that the menopause can begin in the mid thirties and continue to the late fifties or it can be ‘done and dusted’ in less than a year. It is impossible to set a clock to the experience and many of the alternative treatments of menopausal symptoms are ineffective, causing frustration and annoyance.
Baby boomers spend a fortune on trying to minimize the effects of the menopause, some purchasing entire new wardrobes to combat the effects of hot flushes by wearing thin layers of clothing that can be easily discarded. Some try diets that are rich in folic acid and Vitamin B12, found to promote a lifting in spirits! Actually, psychological articles confirm a diet that includes soy, regular exercise, reduced caffeine and alcohol combined with yoga, reiki or some other relaxation program is said to help, although some put much of this down to ‘the placebo effect’.

Doctors will sometimes prescribe a course of hormone replacement therapy for a limited time, having taken into consideration the patient’s family history of heart disease and cancer, although synthetic hormones are now not so popular as estradiol or progesterone.
One of the more unpleasant side effects of the menopause is the eternal mood swing that threatens to de-rail an otherwise happy relationship between a menopausal woman and her husband or partner. Menopausal mood swings can be intense and even violent, turning the most even tempered and sunny natured women into vicious harridans and sending the rest of the family running for cover behind the sofa.

Seeking help for the menopause should be delayed at the outset until the full affect of the symptoms are known. Some baby boomers are able to go through menopause without fuss or the need for medical assistance.

Menopause: The Symptoms and How to Deal With Them is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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3. Menopause and Andropause: The Baby Boomers’ Nightmare

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

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By Dr. Karen for Boomeryearbook.com

Menopause and andropause ideally should go hand in hand; the problems of one neatly reflected in the other like an old married couple. Unfortunately, baby boomer men and women do not have the same experience of the symptoms of middle age and the effects of both conditions can cause chaos in a relationship that is usually well balanced.

Psychological articles show us that it is the absence of the natural hormone DHEA (dehyroepiandrosterone) in the adrenal glands that causes menopausal and andropausal symptoms in both men and women

For men, the symptoms of andropause can be debilitating. One of the main symptoms is depression, which can be difficult to deal with at any time of life but during andropause is made more distressing, as the usual resolve to fight off the effects of depression is not available. Some baby boomer men find that a daily dose of St John’s Wort is beneficial in tackling the symptoms of ‘male menopause’, along with Vitamin E for those who are not taking blood thinners. Other signs of mid life change include a lower sex drive or even impotence, although that is not to say that male menopause automatically produces sexual difficulties.

Women experience a totally different set of problems when the menopausal stage begins, the transition of which is commonly known as ‘perimenopause’, with symptoms that are in some respects more unpleasant than the last stages of menopause, as reproductive hormones diminish.

The menopausal transition can begin as early as thirty five and continue over an average of ten to fifteen years. Individual experiences vary considerably but many women suffer with hot flushes; moodiness; extreme tiredness; absent mindedness and either a excessive interest in sex or a complete loss of sexual appetite, depending on the individual and also on her relationship with her partner: a lady baby boomer with a partner who is completely disinterested in sex might experience extreme sexual frustration during the menopause.

Menopause is conventionally treated through HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy), although some women prefer to try herbal or homeopathic remedies.

For couples who are separated in age by only five years, it is entirely possible that both might experience the effects of mid life changes at the same time and this can cause emotional difficulties as both partners seek extra attention and understanding to help them through this difficult period. Psychological articles acknowledge that the effects of menopause and andropause are minimal for some baby boomers, who sail through the mid life change without significant problems. For others, the transition is a nightmare where one of the partnership exhibits extraordinary behavior that the other finds hard to understand and deal with.

Menopause and Andropause: The Baby Boomers’ Nightmare is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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2. Why Are Baby Boomers Motivated By Sex?

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

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By Dr. Karen for Boomeryearbook.com

This is a question asked mostly by the generation that came after baby boomers and in fact it must be a source of endless irritation to young people to find that their parents had and still have a better sex life than they do! Psychological articles that analyse the whys and wherefores behind sexual behavior find that in fact baby boomers in general have the same level of sex drive as anyone else; they just express their sexuality differently.

The boomer generation is not motivated by sex, although it can sometimes seem that way. This remarkable set of human beings are determined to have things their own way and that includes being able to express their sexual preferences in any way they choose. This can sometimes give the impression that they are motivated by sex and certainly some have a deeper sexual interest than others, just like any other generic group.

Motivation changes from one decade to another with most human beings. Someone in their early twenties will likely be more motivated by sex and sexual attraction than someone in their late thirties and early forties.

The average woman in her thirties is concerned with home and family issues that include moderate sexual interests, unless she is unhappily married or in an unsatisfactory relationship, whereas a man of the same age is motivated by career and whatever hobbies or pastimes he has chosen to interest himself in. However, men do have a greater interest in sexual matters at that age and psychological articles tell us that men think about sex more often during a ten hour stretch than women.

The baby boomer generation is responsible for bringing sexual liberation to the rest of the World but unfortunately is often blamed for the downfall of the World’s sexual health with the advent of STDs. It is true that with the arrival of the contraceptive pill, condoms were cast aside as being an outdated method of contraception by singles, leading to a concentrated spread of STDs. By the time public information campaigns had brought the risk of contracting STDs to light, considerable damage had already been done to the sexually active community.

As schools began to teach contraceptive and moral responsibility beginning in the late seventies, younger generations began to view baby boomers’ sexual attitudes as not only morally wrong but also a health risk.

The boomer track record of failed marriages bears witness that sexual freedom is not always a good thing for the fabric of family life and in fact the marriage contract has become somewhat out dated, with couples choosing to live together and have children outside of marriage rather than risk the financial and emotional upheaval caused by divorce.

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1. Promiscuous Baby Boomers: The Secrets of a Lusty Generation

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

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By Dr. Karen for Boomeryearbook.com

Much of the freedom enjoyed by baby boomers when they launched their free love crusade of the rest of the World back in their wild days was enabled by their being free of the risk of diseases, such as AIDs, or so they thought. Our present young generation have no such ‘safety net’ and dare not indulge in promiscuity.

Psychological articles note that the presence of the AIDs risk has effectively reduced the incidence of promiscuity in young people, although of course there will always be exceptions to the rule. Before baby boomers came along, the stigma of unwanted pregnancy dominated the moral code of young girls who simply were not prepared to take the risk of ‘getting into trouble’.

Contraceptive sheaths were in use, however, condoms were an item exclusively bought by men in the fifties – few women would buy them – therefore contraception was largely left to the discretion of men.

American women’s rights campaigner Margaret Sanger, who coined the phrase ‘birth control’, raised $150,000 to fund the development of the first human contraceptive pill first invented by Carl Djerassi at a laboratory in Mexico in 1951 and with the advent of the pill, sexual freedom reigned supreme in the back seats of cars just about everywhere, until widespread AIDS put a stop to all the fun.

The secrets of the lustiest generation the World has ever seen were in fact simply a matter of risk calculation. Women with no control over their own birth control were simply not prepared to put their trust in men when it came to contraception. Once these women had the insurance of self-contraception, their sexual interests expanded considerably. Far from having a lower sex drive than men, women are every bit as keen on sex as their male counterparts.
Decades later, baby boomers continue to enjoy far greater sexual freedom than previous or subsequent generations. Why is this? Psychological articles suggest that this is merely the legacy of their own attitude to sex and their determination to make their own minds up about their sexual liberation and their right to enjoy a sex life on their own terms.

The fifties and sixties saw a sexual revolution that blew inhibitions out of the water: the baby boomers generation are simply masters of their own fate and refuse to be coerced into a regimented code of sexual behavior.

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Baby Boomers and Pornographic Addiction

Friday, October 2nd, 2009
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Boomers and Pornography

By Boomeryearbook.com

Pornographic addiction is not accurately described by an occasional urge to look at one or two saucy pictures now and again. It is a more serious approach; the desire to view pornographic images and an inability to stop doing so. Some Baby boomers, while having taken little interest in such images in early life, may display an obsession in middle or later life that they cannot overcome.

How do you know if you are addicted to pornography? It is a simple analysis of your own behavior: Are you able to make the choice to do something else, or does the urge to view pornography take precedence over other social activities? Are you secretive about your interest in pornography? Does the secrecy element contribute largely to the attraction? Do you masturbate more often? Do you deliberately introduce the subject of sex into general conversation? Does time slip away as you enter a world of pornographic fantasy? If the answer to these questions is yes, you have a problem to overcome.

Elderly Problems: Porno Addiction

Elderly Problems: Porno Addiction

Baby boomers who have been recently widowed might turn to pornography in an attempt to deal with loneliness or isolation. Although a person might not be ready to take the necessary steps to begin a social life again, pornography is something that is readily available in magazines and online, to pass the time and provide excitement without having to involve others. It becomes harmful when the person is unable to interact normally as a result of a pornographic addiction.

For baby boomers who understand that they have a problem, there are a number of solutions that might be applied to eradicate their difficulties. If the pornographic material is being viewed online, purchasing an efficient web blocker will help enormously. Easy to install and password linked, it enables a third party to program a blocking facility that precludes the viewing of pornographic material. Such applications are traditionally used to block certain sites for children but they may be used with equal effect to help adults.

Boomers and Pornography

Boomers and Pornography

Increasing the social activities of the addict is another way to help reduce the urge to view pornography. By filling the hours that are usually set aside for pornographic entertainment, it is possible to reduce certain urges, especially when physical exercise is included.

An unhealthy interest in pornography is rarely without its drawbacks and may even affect a person’s ability to perform sexually. Baby boomers of a certain age might attribute a lack of sexual competence to progressing age when in fact the problem lies in pornographic addiction. Elderly pornography addiction is an increasing problem, probably due to free use of the internet and to the increased competence of an aging society adept at using internet tools.

As with most addictions, half the battle lies in understanding that the addiction exists in the first place and admitting that help is needed to stop. When seeking professional help for addiction to pornography, or for any other psychological disorder, check the credentials of your psychologist carefully.

The Psychological Article on Boomer Pornographic Addiction is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Bang Bang Baby Boomer: Time for Leisurely Sex

Saturday, September 26th, 2009
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Bang Bang Baby Boomer



By Boomeryearbook.com

Sexual comedy can sometimes take the place of sexual satisfaction when normal people are caught up in the throes of raising a family. Families with two or more children have a pressured routine that involves children quarrelling over the play station; feeding times for babies; school runs and errands; after-school activities; packing lunches; the list is endless.

Somewhere in the havoc, parents try to make time for sexual activity in the five or ten minutes privacy they manage to achieve before their youngest appears at their bedside: “Can I sleep in your bed, Mom?”

As baby boomer parents finally achieve middle age, they breathe a sigh of relief as older kids begin to show signs of moving away to go to college and a number of other emotions take the place of being bombarded with teenage hormonal tantrums and being exhausted by family routines, while at the same time trying to answer the demands of a full time job.

Gradually, life begins to slow down dramatically as the house slowly empties of children. Men and women experience some emotional roller coasters at this stage in their lives, as children who dominated their existence for half of their lives suddenly disappear, leaving the nest empty and somewhat lonely.

The baby boomer solution to loneliness is always to seek solace in company but in fact the obvious and more satisfying solution is closer to home. This is a time when grown up kids have finally left home: before elderly problems set in, baby boomer parents can finally enjoy some quality sex in the privacy of their bedroom at any time of the day or night they choose.

Conversely, at the precise moment when multiple opportunities for uninhibited sex present themselves, the desire to perform is no longer that pressing! Baby boomer ladies with a busy family life often have an active social life. When the temptation to take on more projects crops up, as the prospect of the kids leaving home looms, women often fill their timetable without considering that their time could be better spent warming up the bed sheets.

After spending a hectic and probably over pressured fifteen years or so trying to keep track of four or five people’s social life and probably curtailing one or two sexual adventures of other members of the family, the prospect of being in the house for any reason, even sex, is sometimes just not palatable. There is no reason why frequent trips away should not be on the menu at this time of life, however, when a baby boomer might have more social freedom than at any other stage so far.

Now is the time for jumping in the car and taking off to the lake for a couple of days; having sex under the stars on the lawn; spending two hours in bed in the late afternoon instead of baking scones for the Women’s Institute; being content and enough to pursue sexual happiness while it is available. Don’t let it pass you by…!

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