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The Beautiful World of Zentangles

Monday, January 18th, 2010
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By BoomerYearbook.com

The art of Zentangle was developed by Maria Thomas and Rick Roberts. At a glance, Zentangle images appear to be a complicated interwoven mass of lines and curves. On closer inspection it becomes clear that Zentangles are carefully drawn doodles; images of passing fancy that are created from simple beginnings.

Zentangles are ‘built’ line upon line, with embellishments added at will by the artist. The images are compelling, probably because most people can look upon the sections of a Zentangle and think, ‘Well I could do that’. And they do!

One of the many attractions of Zentangles is that they are accessible for anyone who can put pen to paper: children;baby boomers; tired executives… There is no necessity for artistic talent, although a creative side is invariably exposed with practice. They can be as simple or as intricate as you wish and for some they have replaced crosswords and Sudoku as a commuter’s companion! They are calming, pleasing stress removers that are slightly addictive so be warned!

Zentangling artists tend to range in age from around four to ninety four – the beauty of the Zentangle is that it requires no expensive equipment, simply pen or pencil or both and some good quality paper. Beginners are usually delighted with even a first attempt, which is likely why a second and third effort follow quickly after!

Baby boomers find that Zentangles can be used to decorate and embellish and can be incorporated in other work such as scrap booking, journals, invitation designs and they have even been drawn onto trainers to personalize someone’s daily workouts!
One of the more interesting benefits of Zentangle for baby boomers is the effect of reducing stress. The process of absorbing the mind brings tranquility. Time runs away as the artist slips further into his or her creation, producing lines, blocks and circles that are fascinating, interwoven pockets, drawing the eye and calming the soul. Its therapeutic effects have been known to help deal with addiction; anger; stress; recuperation from illness and work related distress and even a first experience of putting pen to paper to create a Zentangle teaches why this is so. In simple terms it is an exercise in hand eye co-ordination that requires very little natural artistic talent. The result, however, is artistic in the extreme and it is possible for five year olds to turn out a piece of work that is every bit as impressive as something a professional artist might produce. How neat is that…! The process of producing a Zentangle utilizes just about every area of the brain and requires the creator to be totally absorbed, making it a valuable tool to combat stress.

The finished work boosts confidence and fills the artist with enthusiasm to try again. There are certain skills which may be learned, such as pattern techniques and shading but on the whole, a raw novice can enjoy Zentangling from the outset and build an impressive gallery within a week or so. Zentangles may also provide a satisfying pastime for someone who is armchair bound or even bed bound. Baby boomers who are recovering from illness could find Zentangling deeply therapeutic.The Psychological Article on The Beautiful World of Zentangles is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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Zentangles traditionally are created on small squares of paper (making them pocket friendly) although some, like the one in our illustration, expand to become more ambitious and larger pieces. The patterns are inspired by nature; architecture and people and there are no limitations to what a Zentangle might depict. Some are themed; some are not; a totally free media of expression and a way for the mind to celebrate its artistic side as well as exercise its ability to problem solve; direct ideas and freely portray unconstrained thoughts on paper.

Beverly Godfrey is a passionate Zentangle artist with a fine collection of Zentangle projects in her portfolio. A beginner’s guide is available on her Squidoo lens at http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-zentangle

See Maria Thomas’ Zentangles at http://www.zentangle.com/index.php

Baby Boomer Vanity – Where Will it Lead Us?

Saturday, January 16th, 2010

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By Dr. Karen for BoomerYearbook.com

Baby boomers continue to attract criticism in their advancing years. In the maelstrom of ‘boomer controversy’ in the fifties, sixties and seventies of the last Century, baby boomers were attacked for their promiscuity; their blatant disregard of rules, regulations and traditions and most of all for their sheer audacity when it came to refusing to do doing things the way they had always been done. When boomers decided they no longer liked society’s values, they set out to change them. And change them they certainly did!

In the bad old days (in other words before plastic) things were a little different. New mothers struggled with heaving metal buckets of soaking diapers because there was no alternative to getting cloth toweling clean and sterile as baby boomers had not yet invented disposable diapers. The wonder of synthetics had not yet changed the World, so every housewife’s daily routine included armfuls of washing and pressing of family clothing – not to mention an ongoing battle with pure cotton bed linen to be boiled, starched and pressed before it was deemed fit for use.

Women particularly were victims of agricultural facilities. Most men in the pre boomer age enjoyed the status of ‘lord and master’ and favored conventional family roles where they very much ruled the roost; rarely helping with household chores; usually making all decisions of a financial nature for good or ill; sometimes availing themselves of a social life separate to family life, found in sporting and drinking clubs.

In addition to the inconvenience of daily chores, many lladies were compelled to stay within the strict perimeters of local prejudice. A respectable widow, even if she was still relatively young, would not dream of casual dating and risk triggering gossip and scandal. Dressing in racy fashions was definitely out of the question! As she got older, her skin wrinkled and her teeth and gums began to weaken: she accepted her toothless and wrinkly future quietly and made the best of things, choosing to cover the wrinkles with thick, unsightly make up resembling filler and thinly veiling her ill fitting dentures with a watery smile…

The general aura of practicality surrounding society in pre boomer days would hardly encourage vanity. Newspaper promotion vaguely endorsed the importance of ladies keeping their figures through heavy corseting right up to the fifties but few cosmetic enhancements were available, apart from standard face paint widely frowned upon. Men were invited to keep their beards well trimmed and reminded that real men smoked the right brand of cigar or cigarette but were otherwise left to age graciously!

Baby boomer technology changed everything forever

Yet by the closing years of the last Century, it was possible to completely transform one’s appearance and scrape away the years as much as one wished, provided there were sufficient funds to cover the treatments. Plastic and silicone technology brought revolutionary medical corrective surgery. Combined with a determination to stay young, almost anything became possible for a baby boomer on a mission to live forever…

Any why not? Why should the World object on the one hand to the baby boomer vanities that brought physical enhancement to the modern World and yet on the other hand have the temerity to avail itself of the technological and surgical facilities now available courtesy of boomer skills, talents and resources?

In the twenties and thirties of the last Century, a man with a toothache could either put up with it or undergo an extraction. By the time he reached his late fifties, he would be most fortunate to have sufficient healthy teeth left to chew! Nowadays, it is extremely rare for a fifty, sixty and even seventy year old to wear false teeth. Early orthodontry pulls and pushes teeth and gums into shape and modern dental methods strengthen gum and bone sufficiently to ensure our teeth outlive us. No more plates; no more embarrassment…

Research changed that: boomers changed that.

Along with the ability to perform cosmetic surgery, new morals surfaced to accompany physical enhancement. The World talked itself into believing breast lifts were perfectly acceptable, along with hair transplants; nose jobs; tummy tucks and less invasive treatments such as eyelash dyeing; hair tinting; skin peels.

Baby boomer vanity is one of the biggest single money spinners in the history of marketing and the reason is obvious: boomers have money.

Baby boomer morals have always been slightly flawed where the rest of the World was concerned but their ability to ‘fix stuff’ has always been legendary. Who on earth would tolerate being fat, bald and toothless if they could be slim, fit, with a perfect flashing smile and a full head of hair? Who? Broke people – that’s who!

It takes money. And money, unfortunately, is a commodity the average Joe does not have. The result is resentment of boomers and their ability to have exactly what they want whenever they want it.

As we lurch into a new Century, modern science embroiders on boomer achievements to improve on existing treatments in an effort to make them not only better but also cheaper and therefore more accessible for those with fewer financial resources.

So don’t worry – by 2050, we will ALL be gorgeous!

The Psychological Article on Baby Boomer Vanity – Where Will it Lead Us? is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Baby Boomers and Sexual Freedom

Thursday, January 14th, 2010
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By Boomeryearbook.com

Any kind of a sexual revolution has had baby boomers in their very forefront, right from the very beginning. This is the reason why baby boomers have been given so much importance by people around the world. A recent poll and study just concluded amongst parents suggests that baby boomers have a much more enjoyable as well as enticing life than others. They enjoy a greater sexual freedom and are open to vivid types of foreplay.

This rage in echo boomers to copy the attitude of baby boomers has been growing. Baby boomers are increasing in number and today, their tally has reached to eighty five million. Today, people are increasingly interested in meeting interesting people and going the distant lane along with them. The results of numerous research done in the area suggest the very same thing. About 30 per cent of baby boomer population are single. There are about 34 per cent baby boomers out of these who indulge in having sex on their very first date. There are still other 17 per cent who indulge into pre- marital sex.

There are various intents as well as reasons which drive youngsters into copying baby boomers attitudes , as suggested by the questionnaire based survey conducted in the United States and Canada. Out of the entire lot of baby boomers, at least 47 per cent of the population consisted of those who were looking for friendship and about 17 percent others were looking for an able as well as an amicable sexual companion. Such baby boomers are increasingly sexually free as well as liberated.

The reason behind this has to do with the environment in which these baby boomers were born and brought up. These were the times of radicalism as well as social change. These were the times when feminist movements and sentiments were doing rounds in the society and these empowered women to feel more confident about their sexual wants as well as needs in the bed. These were the times when contraception became increasingly popular and the issues related to pregnancy and the fear of its social repercussions started to be forgotten. Even single parenting ceased to be a social taboo and this encouraged many women and men all over the world to indulge in sexual relationships more freely.

One of the greatest points of advantage which baby boomers enjoy over their parents’ generation has to do with a modern day lifestyle syndrome which is known as the empty nest syndrome. If you consider parents, they look forward to enjoy a very active sexual life till the time their son/daughter goes to college. When this happens, it is hard to talk about issues during bed and sexual interest gets a bit lost. Baby boomers however have the advantage of being able to find a common activity which interests both the partners. Thus while going for walks, reading or exercising routines; they can easily indulge in sexual conversation leading to activity which is highly beneficial for the entire relationship.

The Psychological Article on Baby Boomers and Sexual Freedom is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Elderly Problems for Co-dependent Parents

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

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By Boomeryearbook.com

Apart from many other elderly problems, co-dependent parents can unknowingly ruin their child’s future development out of over love and care. We see that many psychologically healthy parents spend their lives taking care of their children and wish to retire when the children have grown up. However, co-dependent parents don’t do this. They do not accept the fact that their child has grown up and still treat him/her as a little kid. They don’t let up: not relaxing the authority and responsibility they showed when their child was still young, they continue to hover or “helicopter “around their adult offspring.

Most of the times, the kids feel insecure and uncomfortable with the extreme love and care given by co-dependent parents. Such elderly problems are harmful for both the child and the parent. While the co-dependent parents might want to be helpful and look after the needs of the child, however, when co-dependent affection is shown, the child might feel insecure, nervous, and self-doubting. Hence it discourages the child’s independent thought and activities. In extreme scenarios due to the co-dependent caretaking, the adult child becomes completely dependent on the parents and loses his or her feelings of independence, resulting in the child’s feeling deep resentment.

Many psychologists suggest that these kinds of changes in the adult child due to elderly problems of co-dependent parents are extremely dangerous for their personality. If the child is unable to develop as an independent capable thinking individual, it might affect the parents as well. Such unnatural care and affection might make the child an emotional cripple who will not be able to make any independent decisions or involve in any independent activities. The elderly problem of co-dependent parents usually robs the independence of the adult child making him incapable of clearly looking at the relationships or recognizing his adult role and responsibility.

Psychological articles tell us that the co-dependent parents often lie and make excuses for their child, which will result in a non-conducive environment for adaption. The parents believe that they know what is best for their kid but do not understand what their kid needs. Hence, they rob the interests of the child, and this makes them a robot; simply obeying orders and not following their own paths. This will make the child agree to the decisions of their parents even though they do not like them. In these cases, the child will feel incapable of challenging their parents who are exhibiting codependency elderly problems. Hence, gradually and unknowingly the child loses self esteem and the ability to make his own decisions.

There are many psychological facts that state the co-dependent single mothers face a tougher job in understanding their adult children and catering to what they need. A lonely mother might often not feel comfortable when the child leaves the home and hence blocks the way the child must grow. One should definitely seek professional help to tackle these elderly problems for the betterment of their child’s future.

The Psychological Article on Elderly Problems for the Co-dependent Parents is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Co-Dependency is a Psychological Disorder

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

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Co-Dependency is a Psychological Disorder
by BoomerYearbook.com

Sometimes, we feel that something is wrong in our lives but are unable to identify its cause; and one psychological cause can be what is referred to as co-dependency. Co-dependency is a psychological disorder found in people of any age but can be specially categorized as an elderly problem. It is a behavior pattern wherein the person gives more importance to the needs of others than his own. People suffering from codependent behaviors often have relationship problems.

Many people know that co-dependency is a psychological disorder but not many of them realize that it can happen to them. It is a surprising fact that many people in the world are affected with co-dependency but they are not aware of it. It is easy to identify co-dependency, an increasing elderly problem, once you are aware of its symptoms and characteristics.

Psychological articles suggest that co-dependency results from childhood problems; often handed down from one generation to the next. It also appears to be a frequently documented psychological fact that co-dependent people come from dysfunctional families. This could be the reason why people would not be able to notice the disorder in themselves and loved ones, ad often fail to realize they are suffering. In dysfunctional families there are often problems such as conflicts, disagreements about actions, not openly discussing feelings and similar unhappy and disagreeable family situations. Even though the people in these families may try to pretend that everything is all right, there are usually many dysfunctional symptoms such as addictions to alcohol, drugs, smoking, sex, gambling, or any other behavior that makes them forgot the family and try to feel better.

These are a few symptoms of co-dependency that is increasingly becoming a common elderly problems:

· The person might face difficulty in making decisions.

· You might get hurt when your efforts are not recognized.

· You always feel that you are responsible for anything that happened.

· You always fear abandonment and hence try to make extreme efforts to secure a relationship.

· You do not create boundaries between yourself and will allow access to everyone without complaining.

· You feel guilty when you try to defend yourself.

· You show an exaggerated need for approval from others.

· You would not like lying and dishonesty and feel constant anger.

· You are always drawn towards the people who needs help and attention.

· You will not trust anyone and do not like people to get close to you.

Co-dependency is one of the elderly problems that can be effectively treated. There are many types of treatments that can be chosen based on the complexity of the person. Therefore, it is always highly recommended to seek professional help in resolving co-dependency issues. If you are suffering from co-dependency, then it is typically indicative that over the years you have had many failed and unhappy relationships, which can cause additional elderly problems or make other problems worse. However, the good news is that professional help might enable you to completely overcome codependency . There is a lot of guilt and shame in the disease of co-dependency. However, there is nothing to be worried about as professional help can lead you out of the situation and help you in live a better life.

The Psychological Article on Co-Dependency is a Psychological Disorder is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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A Nation Of One – The True Church?

Sunday, December 6th, 2009

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Dr. Karen for BoomerYearbook.com

If one were to go back in time, how would the Churches of then differ from the Churches of today? It is an interesting thought for those who make it a practice to attend regular church services. Not for just specific denominations but for all Churches.

Did we somewhere along the way turn the word “congregation” into “segregation”? Perhaps that’s why some churches have a predominantly white congregation, while others have mostly black.

There was a National Congregations study that says about 14% of mostly white congregations stated they had no minorities in their group in 1998, and a 20% minority congregation in 2007. While religious aspects are known to be resistant to change, there is very clear evidence in these figures that show that not to be the current trend in white church congregations.

However the change is primarily in the white congregations as the majority of the black churches reviewed are stable in their segregation; meaning there has been no change towards white member inclusion.

Not only have there been changes in the congregations but there have been several changes in the presentation of the worship. If you were to ask an avid church goer who is now a older baby boomer or senior, what changes have evolved over the years they would tell you there have been significant changes. The Churches don’t seem to be quite so staunch and formal. There is more enthusiasm by acts such as hand clapping and swaying to the music. The music consists of small bands performing a different class of hymns as opposed to the traditional ones.

What has brought about these changes? Many of the traditional churches were finding that their congregations are aging and attendance was slipping. It became a sign of the times that the Church had to be more inviting to the younger generation. This was partly successful due to the relaxing of the formal presentation, and the incorporation of music geared to echo boomers. The modern Church has a more personal touch and is less ritualistic.

There are many older church-goers that feel the Church has become too lax and has lost its serenity and purpose. This makes for a controversial conversation. It makes one think what really is the true purpose of the church? Is it to draw a person to a closer communion with God, or is it to carry out what may have become a routine that has been handed down through the years?

One thing is evident; any individual that speaks of a personal relationship with God through the Church seems to have a certain aura about them of peace and happiness and isn’t that what counts?

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The Teen Pat On the Back-Inflated Ego or Healthy Self Esteem?

Sunday, December 6th, 2009
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By Dr. Karen for BoomerYearbook.com

One of the pet peeves of raising a teenager today is dealing with teen attitude; specifically the attitude of arrogance. There tends to be a lack of humility; no shyness about patting themselves on the back and touting themselves as great people and true benefits to society. Now we’re not saying that there is no merit for this, we are just curious as to the basis of these perceptions.

It is important for an individual of any age to have a certain degree of self esteem. The problem arises when that self esteem becomes overwhelming, which in turn often leads to an overbearing attitude. It is great that young people have the confidence they need to face the trials of life. It is not so great when their egos are so over inflated that they begin to put other’s down.

Once self esteem reaches the point of becoming arrogance it begins to turn people off. This includes, friends, peers, family and co-workers. Nobody enjoys being around a “know it all”. On the other hand, having a reasonable amount of confidence is a real asset to being successful in life. As in most things in life teens need to adopt a realistic balance between over inflation and healthy self-esteem.

Recent studies reported in Psychological Science have shown that some overly confident teens will suffer great falls when faced with the realities of adulthood. The study conducted by psychologist Jean Twenge, of San Diego University compared high school seniors from 1975- 2006. In this study she examined changes in yearly surveys completed by thousands of high school seniors. The results were intriguing. In one area of study it showed that baby boomers in their senior year of high school in 1975, showed lower confidence levels than seniors in high school in 2006. Dr. Twenge found that the 12th graders of 2006 as opposed to the baby boomers of 1975 showed great confidence in their ability to be future “very good” employees, partners, and parents. Overall, when compared to the seniors of 1975, they reported feeling much more satisfied, with high self esteem and confidence. Anywhere between half and two thirds of this age group gave themselves top ratings. It’s easy to see there were no low self esteem issues here. But is this high level of self-esteem deserved or overinflated. The study seems to suggest the latter; unearned and over-inflated.

Perhaps these findings have come about because parents are more conscious of the psychological importance of their child’s feelings of self-esteem. The Baby boomer parents are far more willing to praise their kids to the point of excess. In fact, it appears there are too many pats on the back, and the egotistic teen is far too confident; all attitude and not much proven substance. The key really is to find the fine line between being confident enough to succeed in life, but not excessive ego that turns the teen into a narcissist who falsely thinks of himself as better than others.

And then, equally debilitating, is the opposite end of the spectrum in the millions of teens suffering from low self-esteem, possibly from too few pats on the back or other circumstances of child rearing. The goal is to find the happy medium; the teen who has an appropriate and healthy self-esteem.

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Apologies,Ladies…!

Tuesday, November 24th, 2009

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By BoomerYearbook.com

Mr Obama’s take on how ‘American men treat American women badly’ begs the question: how did he arrive at this opinion? One can only assume that his experience of male and female relationships has been typified by arrogant machoism. Where, exactly, has Mr Obama been spending his time to become drawn into this locker-room impression of American male attitudes that represent American men as almost Neanderthal?

Psychological articles teach us that apologies can be difficult for some people who have difficulty admitting wrong doing. Others, equally guilty, find absolution in the simple act of saying they are sorry, whether they deserve it or not, rendering the exercise pointless.

Of course, the dramatic and overt public apologies to which Mr Obama subscribes do spark debate; affording a modicum of extra popularity (he thinks) and costs, let’s see now – erm – oh – nothing! Yes, folks, the ‘public apology crusade’ budget is zero; allowing Obama to appear benevolent; self deprecating and generous, without spending a single cent of tax payers’ money. He seems intent on practicing his skills in the art of apology on everyone he feels America has offended and some America hase not offended: no political opportunity is missed whenever Obama decides to reel in some credit from carefully selected audiences.

His apology to American women, many of whom are baby boomers, comes on the heels of apologies to China (yes, China – for the rape and pillage of Nanking, apparently, on behalf of Japanese Emperor Akihito: it was considered the neighborly thing to do…!); to two Muslim ladies for a seating plan from which they were excluded for security reasons; to Japan for giving it a good thrashing in World War II; to Chinese president Hu Jintao for being chummy with the Dalai Lama; and last but not least, let us not forget Sergeant James Crowley, the Cambridge, Massachusetts police officer at the center of controversy over his arrest of noted Harvard African-American scholar and friend of Obama, Henry Louis Gates, Jr.

Although it is becoming accustomed to Obama’s propensity to say sorry at every opportunity, the rest of the World and especially lady baby boomers raise eyebrows in surprise at the news that American women are treated badly. Until now, American women were credited for being independent, politically informed and sufficiently respected to hold their own in the international community without Obama’s kind patronage. Thanks Mr.President, for dismantling the dignity of American male / female relationships in a single swipe!

At home, Mr.Obama’s over anxious and mealy mouthed apology program has angered and offended an army of indignant American baby boomers, outraged at what they see as the demeaning of their national status on the World stage, seeing his policies as discrediting the country in terms of foreign diplomacy. Many of them would prefer to see an attempt at resolving America’s economic and security issues, rather than this futile and empty campaign to promote its president as Mr Nice Guy. Psychological articles observe that a personality that is over apologetic might be suffering from lack in confidence (although probably not in this case) and as we all know, the value of apology becomes shallow through over use.

Frequently referred to in the international press as a ‘snake in the grass’

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American baby boomers view these hollow political gestures with interest – waiting, indeed hoping, for fleeting moments of useful statesmanship to appear amidst Obama’s Oscar-winning performances that draw applause from gullible fans and supporters at home and abroad. Mr. Obama is nothing short of accomplished when it comes to inspiring popularity and also extreme offence in the same sentence and continues to play to the crowd whenever he speaks publicly; like a true thespian- but possibly less sincerity?

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The Bedroom Influence: The Hold Baby Boomer Women Have Over Men

Tuesday, November 24th, 2009
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This series of articles from Boomer Yearbook explores the fascinating and varied sexual behavioral patterns that occur as a result of the impact of the modern World; the challenges faced by men and women of the new age and the hurdles that must be addressed: Boomer Yearbook’s Guide and Coaching Strategy for the baby boomer generation.

Dr. Karen for BoomerYearbook.com

It’s the sex thing again – whenever the subject of baby boomers and their influence on the World is discussed, the sexual freedom thing comes to the surface. It is true that baby boomers did renovate the World’s attitude to sex but most of all, they resolved to stay true to their own concepts of how their sex lives should be run. Women who are baby boomers exert power over their men through sexuality by making sex part of home comfort and an integral ingredient of a man’s overall well being.

The bedroom influence is a force to be reckoned with when it comes to getting the old man to do something he doesn’t want to do. Cynical though it may be, lady baby boomers can be quite naughty when it comes to manipulating a situation to get what they want and if that includes withdrawing sexual favors for a while, they simply add it to the agenda.

Psychological articles point out that a woman’s sexual affection can boost a man’s confidence and also his physical wellness. It can also undermine a man’s ability to enjoy life if it is withdrawn for a given period.

Lady baby boomers have a certain ‘proprietorial’ instinct in matters that affect their partners and husbands. They are not afraid of taking responsibility for decisions and in so doing, using their sexual influence to achieve their goals. It is quite common for lady boomers to ‘persuade’ their husbands to their point of view through sex, with every confidence that theirs is the right perspective and hubby will eventually come round! Rightly or wrongly, the arrangement works very well in a great number of boomer marriages.

Do boomer men know they are being manipulated? Certainly! Those who say they do not are simply stepping around the issue of sexual influence and the impact it has in their lives. Psychological articles show us that men do not always have to agree with their wives in order to love and respect them and the reverse is also true. Women use their sexual influence simply because they can: fewer men are able to do so but those who can, do!

Sex is not everything but to men who have been given the cold shoulder until they decide to see sense and agree to ‘whatever’, it can seem pretty important!

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What constitues bribery of an elected official?

Monday, November 23rd, 2009

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By Joseph J Kusnell

Recently, the US House and the US Senate passed some legislation relating to Universal Health Care,. The vote was very close but fell generally along party lines – Democrats for and Republicans against with few exceptions.

However, recently some legislators on the edge, unsure of which side they would support, were given special inducement by both the Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi and the Majority Leader of the Senate Harry Reid.

Pelosi and Reid it has been revealed doled out hundreds of millions of taxpayer dollars – some from people that oppose the health care bill – to members of congress in order to BRIBE them to change their vote.

Three that we know about came from (1 ) California – a hundred million dollars or more to pay for a hospital wing in a congressman’s district (2) Louisiana – hundreds of millions of taxpayer money allotted to a Congresswoman’s district for Katrina victims and (3) three hundred million sent to Blanch Lincoln’s state of Arkansas in exchange for her vote on this same bill. There may be others. Very likely there ARE others. .

My question is who says this is legal? First, who gave Pelosi and Reid the right to dole our taxpayer money to representatives in order to bribe them to vote for projects favored by Pelosi and Reid? How is this legal? How is this not a crime?

I would say it is out and out BRIBERY of an ELECTED OFFICIAL. No matter they are all in the same political party, that isn’t important in the law. What is important is that no one try to bribe an elected official. If you do, you have committed a federal crime and you should go to jail.

Here is the definition of bribery: “To corrupt or gain influence by means of a bribe.”

That’s exact what Nancy Pelosi did. That’s exactly what Harry Reid did. Not only that but the money to doled out is PUBLIC MONEY and it came from many people that in fact do not approve of the legislation in question so they used everyone’s tax money for a very specific personal purpose. Isn’t that misuse of government funds?

How can it be that giving money to an elected representative to influence his vote is legal? How can the American democratic process work if leaders have access to the public till and are permitted to raid the public treasury to persuade (convince) people to vote against their conscience? That sound like a criminal act to me. And if it wasn’t to cause the recipient to get in line, then why was it given to them in the first place. After all, they were all well-known fence sitters on this bill BEFORE they got those huge grants.

Giving bribes to public officials to influence their votes is illegal. Certainly if we found money from outside the government being delivered to a representative in a brown bag, we would arrest the briber. So why does we arrest that briber just because he happens to work INSIDE the capital rather than outside?

Consider this: if a lobbyist didn’t favor this bill and walked around handing out millions of dollars in cash or promises or special treatment to Senators and Congressmen to get them to vote AGAINST the bill, he would be immediately arrested. That’s a felony!

What if each Senator or Congressman published a price list for his vote on various pieces of legislation, to wit: I am not going to support this bill but if you give me a hundred million dollars for a needed new wing on a hospital in my district, then I will indeed cast my vote for the bill. .

Is that okay? Is that legal? Or is it undermining the American legislative process? Is it bribing a public official and isn’t that a Federal crime? I think it is. In fact, I am sure it is. In fact, if that happened the Justice Department would immediately bring charges against both the person offering the bribe and the person ACCEPTING it. That’s a violation of Fiduciary Responsibility on behalf of any elected official and a act of illegal bribery for the guy offering the “favor”. That’s what Reid and Pelosi did to get enough votes to pass their partisan bill. Why shouldn’t they be charged with a crime since everyone knows this is what happened.

And the folks who accepted the bribes then voted for the legislation favored by the Speaker and the Senate Majority leader – two small time politicians one from the very limited area of San Francisco and the other from the rather small state of Nevada which earns its money from gambling, prostitution and game playing.

Did something say these two characters are above the law? Did someone tell them they could use all the money this government has at its disposal to “influence – or is it to BUY – votes in Congress?

If so, who told them that? Who told them they were above the law? Who said it was okay to bribe Congressmen and Senators with public monies?

What the hell is going on here? I thought we elected representatives to vote their conscience – to vote for what they thought was good for America? Now we learn they can bargain away their votes for cash and favors whenever possible and that’s okay with us?

No, it’s really not. That’s undermining the political process. That’s using everyone tax dollars to buy votes for their (Pelosi and Reid) personal political agenda. MY tax money was used to bribe people to vote for a bill I personally do not approve of. But even that’s not the important thing. The important thing is IT’S BRIBERY. It’s a CRIME.
Exchanging money or favors for votes may be politics but it’s still a CRIME. I think its called “undue influence”.

How many different ways is this wrong? How many different ways should this be illegal? Why aren’t Pelosi and Reid up on charges of undermining the US Political process. Instead of letting Senators and Representatives come to the conclusion that best suits their consciences, these so-call “leaders” are willing to shell out big bucks to BUY THEIR VOTES RIGHT INSIDE THE CAPITAL!

This is honest representative government in action? Like hell it is. It’s using public money to bribe public officials and anyone caught doing this should go to jail!

So how come someone in Justice isn’t looking into this? How come we don’t talk to that California representative who admitted IN PUBLIC that he exchanged his vote on health care for some money to build a new wing to a hospital in his district. How about we talk to the Congresswoman who walked home with 300 million of taxpayer dollars for “Katrina victims” in exchange for her vote on The Health Care bill. Or the Senator from Arkansas who didn’t make up her mind until Reid gave her a pocketful of tax dollars for her district. And how many others were given this special brand of persuasion? What do we have in our government’s inner circles, people that trained in the Mafia? Hell why use money to bribe them, why not just make them an offer they can’t refuse! That would work just as well.

Does this make sense to you? Do you know that Reid and Pelosi just paid almost half a BILLION dollars to buy these three votes and God knows how many more? And no one wants to challenge this in Federal Court? Folks, this is bribery! This is NOT legal! If this is the way these people are running our government, they all need to be charged with crimes and brought to trial!!! .Why not stand at the door of the Hall and simply hand out thousand dollars bills to the congressmen and women as they come in. You know a big smile and a “Hope you are with us on this one, this is for you.”
And you hand that the thousand dollar note.

Nancy Pelosi and Harry Reid have BRIBED at least three Representatives and Senators. No one can tell me this is lawful or legal or proper. It is none of these things. What it is, is criminal! Let’s shine a spotlight on this and watch which rats scurry for cover. .

I want these two charged with bribing high government officials. I think the case against them is open and shut. And it will invovled far more than three people, I will bet you. God knows how much of our money these two have used to BUY this legislation.

The people we sent to Washington as our representatives are supposed to vote on conscience not for cash on the barrel head. .Hell, if they can be bribed on one project, why not on another? And if they can be bribed why can’t everyone. Or can they?

And if everyone can, what kind of government is this and why do we bother to vote. I thought we elected representatives to represent US – but apparently they represent whomever gives them the biggest kick back. I can see them now taking the oath with one hand on the Bible and the other held open behind them where people can stuff money into it.

CALL IT WHAT IT IS – WHAT THESE TWO DID WAS TO BRIBE HIGH GOVERNMENT OFFICIALS IN ORDER TO UNDULY INFLUENCE OUR LEGISLATIVE PROCESS. I AM NOT SURE BUT I THINK THAT’S A FEDERAL CRIME NO MATTER WHO DOES IT!!!!!!

So let’s file charges and see what rats run out of the smoking building.

God Bless America. God Bless honesty and integrity. It seems to have disappeared from our government – maybe we should do something to bring it back

On behalf of the American voter, I demand an investigation be opened immediately to determine if Speaker of the House of Representatives Nancy Pelosi and Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid broke the law in giving special consideration to at least these three elected officials in order to cause them to change their vote on the Health Care Bill.

Because if they did, they belong in jail!!!

Joey