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Baby Boomers Guide to Anger: Why Me? The Second Stage of Grief

Sunday, September 20th, 2009
Kubler Ross Stages of Grief

Kubler Ross Stages of Grief


Elderly Problems by Boomeryearbook.com

Baby boomers in the second stage of grieving can be hard to put up with. The second stage in the process can be confrontational moodiness, unreasonable demanding and downright rude behavior. The grieving process is a roller coaster of emotions from start to finish and often leaves a fall out of broken friendships as grieving baby boomers blame everyone in the world for being left without a much loved partner; from the doctors to the medication to the incompetence of the funeral director. What they are really doing is hurting so badly they cannot cope and anger can sometimes be a way of dealing with the pain.

Some second stage grieving behavior comes with an alarming propensity to cry in rivers. Although some manage to contain public tears and reserve their weeping for bedtime, others weep copiously until friends and family despair of when the crying might finally come to a stop. Some baby boomers find others’ tears embarrassing and hard to witness but in fact the crying process is healing and should not be interfered with unnecessarily, unless the person happens to be suffering from some illness which might be aggravated by constant tears.

The angry second stage of grieving can prolong for many months and sometimes people who are close to the grieving person can become so accustomed to being treated badly, the end of this uncomfortable part of the grieving process goes by unnoticed. It is quite common for grieving baby boomers to lose friends in this prickly stage of grief and people can hardly be blamed for wishing to avoid someone who criticizes and picks fault at every opportunity. If you have patience, however, the sunny and affectionate person you once knew will emerge on the other side of stage two grieving.

The second stage of grieving is deeply emotional and during the moments when the grieving person needs his (or her) friends and family the most, it is often at this stage that they must survive alone, as they might have alienated those closest to them. Angry confrontation is not a scenario most people voluntarily put up with. Baby boomers in the depths of grief might even ask the question: why me? Why couldn’t it happen to you instead? You don’t love your husband (or wife) as much as I loved mine. Why couldn’t it happen to you? It is hurtful and the next hour or the next day, an apology might reasonably be expected but it rarely comes: the person is too deeply involved in their own pain to notice anyone else’s.

Friends could certainly not be blamed for turning away from someone who is being so unreasonable. However, at this point it might be a good idea to ask yourself how you would behave if it was you who had suffered the loss and remind yourself that one day it will be your turn to go through the grieving process and your turn to be angry.

The Psychological Article on Anger: Why Me? The Second Stage of Grief is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Baby Boomers Guide to Overcoming the Fear of Living Alone

Saturday, September 19th, 2009
Kubler Ross: Stages of Grief

Kubler Ross: Stages of Grief


Elderly Problems by Boomeryearbook.com

The fear of living alone is something that everyone experiences at some stage. For some, it is a recurring childhood nightmare which begins with grieving at being left too long to cry as a small child and crystallizes later in life when one finally loses one’s life partner or companion. Baby boomers are usually of an age where living alone is something they have had to come to terms with throughout certain changes in their lives.

The worst experience of having to live alone is undoubtedly the transition that is necessary following bereavement. There are many stages in life where single living is something of an excitement: everyone enjoys the freedom of single life and the escape from parental supervision when departing for college, or taking up residence in your first independently owned home! For baby boomers grieving for a deceased partner, however, living alone can be something scary and unpalatable in the extreme.

The solution to conquering the fear of living alone is not to take the all too obvious step of moving in with other people. This can sometimes be a less than successful idea due to the fact that the grieving process can require familiar surroundings, peace and quiet, and the company of familiar friends. All of these elements might be missing from a scenario where someone else’s routine must be considered on a daily basis and someone else’s house rules made priority.

A frequent problem with facing life alone is the shock; especially for those who have actively nursed an ailing life partner through a serious illness prior to death. At these times, the last person you think of is yourself and the problem of living alone can sometimes be cast aside until it is finally on top of you. The process of grief can play cruel games with a person’s ability to be independent at this vulnerable time and someone who might be supposed to be capable and self sufficient might suddenly fall to pieces when faced with the dual effort of grieving and also surviving alone.

For baby boomers with a wide circle of friends, the transition from being in a long term relationship to sudden widowhood can be made easier by gentle socializing and visiting. For those who have always depended solely on their life partner for company, the process is more difficult and might involve having to change social habits to attain a degree of contentment.

The fear of living alone is often a bogey man who disappears once the first unfamiliar way of life is tackled. Taking the step toward buying a new home can sometimes be the answer: for others the prospect of parting with the home they shared with a loved one for so long is hard to bear. Baby boomers who live in a close community are more likely to conquer the fear of living alone than someone who has become habitually socially isolated.

Living alone need not be a drama but the issue must be addressed sympathetically by friends and family to achieve peace of mind for the bereaved.

The Psychological Article on Overcoming the Fear of Living Alone is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

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Baby Boomers living a Tao-centered “sickness free” life

Friday, September 18th, 2009
Baby Boomers Tao guide to alleviating elderly problems

Baby Boomers Tao guide to alleviating elderly problems


By Boomeryearbook.com

The Tao Te Ching is a sacred text containing eighty one verses that were dictated by a self-realized man, Lao Tzu. Lao Tzu lived approximately five hundred years before the birth of Jesus – the Tao Te Ching is the most widely translated body of text after the Bible and its eighty one verses are believed to be the ultimate commentary on living a harmonious life by observing nature – this seems to be exactly what the doctor prescribed for the Seventy-six million baby boomers.

The 71st verse: Knowing ignorance is strength. Ignoring knowledge is sickness. Only when we are sick of our sickness shall we cease to be sick. The sage is not sick but is sick of sickness; this is the secret of health – a Wayne Dyer translation

Lao Tzu is teaching us that sickness simply implies that there is some imbalance in the mind or body. He is telling us that all sickness, mental and physical, stems from not being in tune with the great Tao (or the great Way) – in simpler terms, something about ‘you’ is not in agreement with the ways of nature. Even the slightest presence of a cough, cold, fever or fatigue indicates that there is surely a mental equivalent of that in the form of bad thinking habits – anger, fear, hatred, jealousy or guilt – a movement away from the pure compassion, love, acceptance and patience of the great Tao.

Taoist sages have rightly concluded that fear, hatred, doubt, impatience, greed or any other “ego-based” thoughts always end up creating some ‘dis-ease’ (hyphenated) in the mind or body. Thus, for optimum health, baby boomers will need to weed out such thoughts and to stay centered in the natural well-being of the great Tao by planting seeds of compassion, mercy, patience, well being and empathy. As a great mystic once said, “Don’t think of illness, think of health. Don’t think of thorns, think of flowers. Don’t think of ugliness, misery, think of beauty and joy”.

Practicing the Tao

Contrary to what baby boomers may think, the truth is that it’s never too late to make healthy changes in our lives. Start with cultivating a “happy mind” by refusing to entertain negative thoughts and feelings. Start to perceive a sneeze, an ache, a slight pain or any other form of minor discomfort as the body’s request to allow it to return to its natural healthy state by taking some time off, relaxing or simply going for a walk. A “happy mind” would naturally trust and follow the body’s messages knowing fully well that a body that’s often heard; never falls sick.

Baby Boomers will benefit from taking a good look at their habits, engagements and pursuits from a Tao perspective – ask yourself if these thoughts, habits or pursuits could be a cause of any mental and physical dis-ease (both now and in the future)? If the answer is yes, then simply make it a point that you will not continue to ignore this – after all ignoring knowledge is sickness and knowing ignorance is strength. We baby boomers simply have to take gradual and steady steps everyday towards weeding out negative and impure thoughts/habits/engagements from our lives and planting in seeds of compassion, sharing, peace and empathy.

When Sathya Sai Baba, a God-realized man in India, received multiple fractures to his hipbone; a disciple asked him how he could remain happy and blissful in such an apparent painful physical state. His reply was:

“People today need to learn to give up body attachments and experience their divinity within. Pain is a natural phenomenon. But suffering is a “choice”. I do not suffer, as I am not (just) the body”.

Psychological Articles as Solutions to Types of Discrimination

Psychological Articles as Solutions to Types of Discrimination

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Getting a New Puppy: A Guide to Training a Puppy for the Baby Boomer or Booming Senior Owner

Saturday, August 29th, 2009

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By Boomeryearbook.com

The aging baby boomer or booming senior owner of a new puppy might already be experiencing personalelderly problems and the decision to welcome a new addition to the family may well have been made due to loneliness or the loss of a life partner. A pet can certainly help to reduce the effects of bereavement, partly because the nurturing process is therapeutic and partly because the company provided stems isolation at times of solitude, such as evenings and early mornings.

Older dog owners often have particular issues, such as an inability to move quickly. If you have a new puppy, make sure you use a harness and lead when you are out walking, rather than a simple collar arrangement which might easily be ‘slipped’, allowing puppy to escape onto a busy road. Be mindful that you are no longer as agile as you used to be and your elderly problems are likely to hinder your ability to catch a young puppy on the run, even if you had the inclination to try!

New puppies can be naughty and boisterous. Make sure yours gets enough exercise to reduce the risk of boredom and keep your own joints supple and free of elderly problems. Puppies that chew the furniture might have been left alone too long or given too much freedom during the teething stage. Also ensure you give your new puppy plenty to chew on and encourage him to exercise his sharp little teeth; that way he might leave your belongings alone!

House training needs to be addressed early and persevered with until puppy has learned to be clean. People with elderly problems cannot be cleaning doggy mess every day: it’s unhygienic, unnecessary and depressing. Take professional advice if your puppy is persistently soiling the rugs and do it soon to avoid naughty habits forming.

There is nothing nicer than having a lovely, cuddly puppy to snuggle into. For someone who is aging, a puppy can be solace for the children who grew up, for the grandchildren who live far away or for the wonderful wife or husband who is no longer around. Remember, however, to allow your puppy to interact with other people to promote his ability to socialize and reduce the risk of his becoming over protective and snappy with strangers.

Try not to spoil a puppy. Feeding at the table and handfed snacks between meals are a no-no if you want your pup to grow up with good habits and polite manners. Introducing snacks to a puppy can result in drooling – those awful slimy shoelaces that hang from the jowls and make everyone feel nauseous! Cute in a little puppy but repulsive in an older dog and puppies tend to grow up quickly! Feed only at mealtimes and always in puppy’s own bowl, never on a plate that is used for humans.

If you are going to allow your dog onto the sofa when he is full grown, that is certainly up to you. But if you are going to object to a fully grown Newfoundland taking up two thirds of the couch, do not allow him to get up there as a puppy! Once dogs have established their allowable territory, it is impossible to convince them to change their habits.

Getting a New Puppy A Guide to Training a Puppy for the Elderly Owner is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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Alcohol Recovery Stage Eight: Making Amends and Knowing When to Step Back

Friday, August 28th, 2009
Alcoholism

Alcoholism



By Boomeryearbook.com

The recovering alcoholic has learned by stage eight how to apologize and to an extent, how to atone for the considerable offences caused in a variety of ways over the period before the commencement of his or her recovery program. Those with elderly problems might also have accepted that age and frailty does not excuse an alcoholic from the resolve to assess where offence has been caused and to make amends to the best of his ability.

For family and friends who have been close to the recovering alcoholic, it is possible that an enormous change for the better will have been observed and taken on board. Amends will be made on a daily basis in these cases. As the alcoholic returns to a normal life and begins to reliably attend work, those with young children will resume parental responsibility, those with elderly problems might begin a special interest or pastime which includes a level of sociability.

Amends for the damage wrought by an alcoholic who is out of control might range from making a financial compensation for damaged property to a simple apology. People with an alcohol dependency indulge in all kinds of ugly behavior. Some will lie about their work colleagues to cover their own absence, some will steal valuables from their family or rob from their grandmother’s purse to buy a bottle, as for an alcoholic in search of a drink, there are no boundaries that cannot be crossed to achieve access to alcohol. Hardly surprising then that stage eight comprises handling a great deal of humility, personal examination and contrition.

There are occasions when atonement becomes harrowing for the person who is receiving apologies from the recovering alcoholic. Someone in recovery will occasionally perceive their need to make amends as a personal crusade. If the recovering addict also has elderly problems, they might easily misjudge a situation and end up causing more offence in their effort to make up for past behavior.

This is a time when it is important for the alcoholic to ‘step back’ and allow the situation to rest. Often it is more painful to step back than to achieve closure on an incident where deep offence has been caused. Not achieving forgiveness for the past can be difficult to live with but sometimes the recovering alcoholic has no choice.

Stage eithg involves making certain assessments about any number of relationships from the past and whether they can be patched up. The process can be uncomfortable, especially for alcoholics with elderly problems, both from the point of view of being forgiven for misdoing and also when being told that forgiveness will not be possible. The emotions that must be dealt with in stage eight are usually deep guilt, remorse, resolve to change and the ability to know when a situation is not salvageable.

As the alcoholic approaches the end of stage eithg, it is important to view success in terms of how many relationships have been retrieved rather than how many have been lost.

Alcohol Recovery

Alcohol Recovery

Alcohol Recovery Stage Eight: Making Amends and Knowing When to Step Back is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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Alcohol Recovery Stage 6: Asking for Help to Change

Friday, August 28th, 2009
Alcoholism

Alcoholism



By Boomeryearbook.com

One of the hardest things in life is to ask for help. Human pride is present in everyone, even in a recovering alcoholic. Those who also have elderly problems might have even more difficulty going to another person for help and support at a time when they most need to do so. The tragedy is that at this time, when help is most needed, a person with a dependency on alcohol is least likely to ask for support.

An alcoholic who has started on the road to recovery by going through the first half of the recovery programs, in other words the first five stages of recovery, will have the experience of being able to admit that he has a problem and being able to discuss the effects his (or her) addiction has on the people around him; his job; his family; his ability to socialize.

Yet there will still be an addiction to conquer within a sixth stager. At this point, the addict might ask for help from a higher power. This might be a religious or spiritual entity such as God or Buddah, or an authoritative figure in the person’s life. By now the recovering addict has seen his or her true personality in glorious color and should be in no doubt of his own shortcomings. There remains the need to ask for help to change and change permanently.

At stage sixth, promises might be made by the recovering alcoholic to make a permanent transition to being a non drinker. He (or she) will by now have experienced the benefits of being alcohol free for long enough to appreciate being able to wake up in the morning and remember the events of the night before; being able to taste food again: being able to socialize without fear of making a fool of oneself.

Even those with physical elderly problems will experience a sense of energy and vigor they have not felt for years. The body’s physical recovery from alcohol gives the addict renewed strength to make permanent changes. At this stage there might be rekindled interest in hobbies and pastimes abandoned long ago when alcohol took over as the main interest in the person’s life. Learning new skills and re-learning old ones can help the addict in his re-examination of his life as it was and as it is today.

This sixth stage of reform is a valuable point of taking stock of changes made so far and a platform for launching the remaining recovery stages toward sobriety. Those with elderly problems often recognize the sixth stage as the point where they began to feel better, more in control, more certain of success. Elderly problems can bring with them certain insecurities and feelings of vulnerability, especially when trying to deal with an alcohol addiction at the same time. The sixth stage is the beginning of the vanquishing of certain demons. And yet, it is nonetheless remarkable when considering the number of helping hands available that some addicts find it so hard to reach out to them.

Alcoholism Recovery

Alcoholism Recovery

Alcohol Recovery Stage 6: Asking for Help to Change is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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Alcohol Recovery Step 4: The State of Readiness and Wanting to Change

Friday, August 28th, 2009
Alcoholism

Alcoholism


By Boomeryearbook.com

At stage four of the twelve steps to recovery from alcohol addiction, an addict might turn to his or her family doctor for further help.

It is widely believed that alcoholics need to be trotted along to a dependency self help group at the first available opportunity and undoubtedly these groups are invaluable support for recovering alcoholics. However, a family doctor will have access to certain information which tells him how the body is coping with alcohol addiction and the withdrawal process. An honest interview with a trusted medical expert at this stage can be invaluable, especially if the addict is also suffering with physical or mental elderly problems.

A recovering alcoholic going through the twelve steps will begin to experience the first threads of success at stage four and begin to feel a winning sense of self worth. By this time, some ugly truths have been faced and some fearsome dragons slain. The addict is beginning to understand how to avoid social occasions where their resolve might be challenged and learn how to avoid dangerous scenarios where it becomes extremely difficult to resist the temptation to drink. The addiction itself has begun to grow whiskers and is no longer quite so scary. Elderly problems which might accompany the alcoholism will probably by now have been recognized as a separate issue to the problem of alcohol dependency.

Stage four is a time of readiness for the recovering alcoholic. It is a time of polishing armour and making a final push, as the final stages through the twelve steps are concerned with review and helping others. At stage four the alcoholic might still be in the process of self analysis and although this process never really stops, at stage four it is still the major part of being ready for the final stages of recovery.

At this point in the process, the alcoholic has admitted openly, honestly and completely that they are addicted to alcohol and will probably have accepted they will be unable to drink ever again. One or two will be so elated over their successes that they will vow never to drink again: for others the path is rockier. Addicts with elderly problems to contend with in addition to their alcohol dependency might have taken a while longer to reach stage four.

By stage four, recovering alcoholics will have mastered the art of sharing their problem with others and be receptive to hearing about other people’s difficulties. The first three stages are heavily concerned with self analysis and so stage four allows a brief breathing space for the addict to review his own journey and be ready for what lies ahead.

A certain serenity might have been achieved by stage four that will have been noticeably absent in someone with an alcohol dependency in the first three stages of recovery. The ability to recognize danger zones has become fine tuned and those with elderly problems will be less stubborn; more receptive to advice; less arrogant about their entitlement to respect due to their great age.
Alcohol Recovery: The State of Readiness and Wanting to Change is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Alcohol Recovery

Alcohol Recovery

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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1 Facing Up to Alcohol:Admitting to Being Out of Control

Monday, August 24th, 2009
Alcoholism: Step One-Admitting to being out of control

Alcoholism: Step One-Admitting to being out of control

By Boomeryearbook.com

Alcohol addiction is a terrible burden. Alcoholics come in all ages, shapes and sizes and some, tragically, are hardly old enough to drink yet incredibly have an alcohol dependency. Older alcoholics might be experiencing elderly problems that aggravate their addiction, such as disability: it is very difficult to drink secretly if you are dependant on someone else to buy the alcohol.

As the elderly alcoholic becomes more reliant on others to provide alcohol, his addiction becomes more apparent, usually followed by resentment as caring friends and relatives eventually refuse to buy an unlimited supply.

Alcoholics with elderly problems have probably been drinking for many years. The key to beating an addiction is always taking the first step of admitting there is a problem. For an elderly drinker, as with all drinkers, this is often the step that is the most difficult and one that seems impossible to take.

Sometimes, elderly alcoholics do not face up to their addiction until they have become dependant on someone else to a debilitating degree. A man (or woman; alcoholism does not discriminate) who has spent most of his working life drinking to excess and being unable to give up drinking, will not see this as a problem until someone else is involved. That someone might be a professional caretaker, or a member of the family, another person with elderly problems or even another alcoholic.

At some stage, elderly alcoholics usually have usually tried and failed to give up drinking. Sometimes, the act of trying to stop drinking will have lasted only a few hours; sometimes a few days; albeit unsuccessfully. As the alcoholic ages and elderly problems such as forgetfulness or dementia set in, the addicts behaviour typically becomes more difficult with retirement allowing him (or her) more time in which to drink.

Regardless of age or circumstance, the first step to alcohol addiction control is always admitting there is a dependency on alcohol. An addict finds this admission incredibly difficult and will sometimes experience a real sense of loss, failure and despair at having to face up to the fact that they are out of control.

The theory that all alcoholics know they are alcoholics is not true. Someone who is able to stop drinking for a few days might easily believe they are still in control of their ability to stop completely: “Well, I stopped for three whole days last week, so that proves I am not an alcoholic”. In fact, it only proves that the addict can stop drinking for three days. The effect of alcohol on the addict and the inability to be without it is what derails their effort to truly conquer the problem.

Alcoholic dependency in a person with elderly problems will already have caused considerable inconvenience throughout their life. They might have been unable to go to work because they have been in an alcohol induced sleep; they might have been unable to pay their bills (alcohol is expensive). Facing up to the problem is hard enough at any time but an aging alcoholic might also have elderly problems that aggravate efforts at recovery.

Alcoholism

Alcoholism

Facing Up to Alcohol: Admitting to Being Out of Control is part of Boomer Yearbook’s continuing series of baby boomers psychological coaching tips and how to alleviate elderly problems. We believe knowledge is power. We’d love to hear what you think.

Boomer Yearbook is a Social Network and Psychological Articles for Baby Boomers. Connect with old and new friends, or expand your mind and ward off senior moments and elderly problems with dream analysis and online optical illusions and brain games provided by clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Turner. Join other Baby Boomers to stay informed, receive weekly Newsfeeds, and let your opinions be heard. Baby boomers changed the world. We’re not done yet!

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A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words

Tuesday, August 4th, 2009

 

Obama's Reaction to an Elderly Problem

Obama's Reaction to an Elderly Problem

 

One picture is worth a thousand words.
 
Take note: Professor Gates, a Black friend of Obama’s, needs help walking down the stairs. Who is helping him? Is it the President who cares so much about him?
 
No, the President could care less. He has accomplished him mission which was to get himself off the hook after his racist comment. Notice the “cat that ate the canary” look on his face.
 
It is the White cop, Sergeant Crowley, who was ridiculed by Obama last week as stupid who is taking the time to help Professor Gates down the stairs. 
 
If that doesn’t tell you anything about your President, nothing will.

THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES

Saturday, July 18th, 2009
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Who is this man? Is there any substance behind the form?

By Joseph J. Kusnell for Boomeryearbook.com

We were introduced to our new President when he decided to embark on the John Kerry apology tour. In this tour, he visited every country that is envious or jealous of us and in effect apologized for America’s success. What he hoped to gain other than personal acceptance, I have no idea but he went out and “I’m sorry’ed” himself around the globe and they loved him. Meanwhile his countrymen had to bite their lip since they were suddenly being ripped by the man they had just elected as their President. Certainly the leftists loved that because they hate America but a lot of Americans cringed remembering all the good we have done around the world and all the dead boys we left on battlefields defending people that couldn’t defend themselves.

Honesty is a virtue. At least that’s what I have always been taught. But is it? Is Obama honest?

During the campaign he told Michigan steelworkers, “I will bring back those good jobs”. He never said how exactly he planned to do that but he doesn’t have to. That’s Obama. He deals in platitudes not accomplishments. He is like the doctor who knowing you have cancer, says you are just fine. You leave feeling pretty good but when you go home, you have cancer.

This week he went back to Michigan and addressed those same steelworkers. Now keep in mind this is not even a year later. And what does he say now? “Some jobs are never coming back.” This AFTER he won the election. Think that’s honest?

Obama lives in a fairyland and many Americans are living there with him. But that doesn’t matter because the reality is the reality no matter how much he denies it.
He is no “ALICE” and this is no “WONDERLAND”.

The President told us we have to pass the stimulus because without it, unemployment would rise to over 8%.

We passed it. Unemployment is now 9.5% heading for 10.0%.

The President said he would CREATE 4,000,000 (MILLION) new jobs. After a while, that changed to, “Create or SAVE 4,000,000 new jobs” with his stimulus plan.

So we passed it. At the end of this summer, we will have LOST four million jobs!
Not created. Not saved. LOST. That’s hardly a small mistake.

To save themselves, they now say “oh yes we saved a lot of firemen and policemen and teacher’s jobs.” What the hell does that mean? The stimulus money saved those jobs? You borrow money to pay them so they can keep their jobs? And how do you propose to continue doing that. Know what that is? That’s why they say you can get welfare checks but you have to do community service for them. Great. The teachers and the firemen and the policemen are doing “community service” for their welfare checks.

The guy has no idea what he is talking about. Anyway, how can you possibly count the number of government employees who MIGHT have lost their jobs were it not for the influx of BORROWED money? You can’t. It’s nothing but bull. What is not bull is the unemployment numbers and they are cruising toward 10.0% and now they are saying, “Oh yes, this might get to 11.0% or 12.0% and it might take another year or two (or three, or four?).

He promised no new taxes and they are planing to tax everything in the world from cigarettes, to liquor, to soft drinks, to OBESITY! They are spending money they don’t have at an alarming rate and now even the INTEREST on the money they have borrowed can’t be paid. Where do you think that money is going to come from? It’s coming from YOU and it won’t matter if you call it “taxes”, or “voluntary contributions”, they are going to take it because they HAVE TO. You can’t borrow money from other governments (CHINA) and not pay it back. And we have borrowed TRILLIONS of dollars. That’s because this guy has no idea in hell what he is doing. He does dumb things, the bills go up, and he has to borrow the money from somewhere. But remember fellow Americans, he is borrowing from other countries on YOUR name and MY name. WE have to pay it back and with INTEREST! It’s one thing to say you like the guy but that doesn’t mean he has the faintest idea what he is doing.

Have you ever seen a TV commercial? Who do corporations hire to hawk their products to you? They hire people YOU LIKE. Attractive and popular people that they think you might like to buy from. What is more important in selling their product to you? The product itself or the spokesman who is convincing you to buy it?

The spokesman and that’s why they pay these guys millions of dollars to pitch their product to you. If the product were truly great and reasonably priced, they could sell it word of mouth and save all that money. The more of their commercials you see, the more certain you can be that selling the product is not all that easy.

Take Obama’s green messages. That’s all you see all day long on TV. Well, those ads cost millions of dollars to run. So who is paying for them? You know the answer as well as I do. People who intend to get rich off “green”. That’s why they are willing to spend so much money selling the message, because they intend to make a lot more than they are spending.

This guy’s name is Barack Obama, not Saint Barack. He is what he has always been, a small town southside Chicago politician – as crooked as they all are. Only he doesn’t look the part.

He ran on a platform of promises he could never hope to accomplish. But he knew how people are, you tell them what they want to hear and they vote for you. Then you can do whatever it is you want to do and there is not much they can do about it.

Take at look at something else he has done for you. Let’s discuss the GM debacle.
And remember, what happens to everyone else will happen to you. You can’t sit back and think this doesn’t affect you and your kids, because it does. Everything this guy does affects your life and your future and the future of your kids and grandkids.

GENERAL MOTORS.

GM failed for a lot of reasons but principally for two: (1) UAW costs are exorbitant. If you don’t think so check out Toyoto which uses American workers here in America without the UAW and is doing just fine. (2) American cars have or had the reputation for falling apart after they left the showroom. Why? Poor workmanship is why. Who? The UAW workers is who. The union workers are protected by their union even when they do shoddy work. So the UAW brought down GM and there was little GM could do about it. The union was that powerful.

But the UAW supported our southside Chicago politician, the guy with the big smile. So what does their hero do, he screws thousands of Americans to protect his own people – the union that gave him millions for his campaign and the union workers that voted for him. Hey, you scratch my back and I’ll scratch your’s.

The trouble with that is while you are scratching each other’s backs, you also are going out of business. Putting out a shoddy product is not the way to keep you job for long.

So GM collapsed. But a GM collapse would hut the UAW and its members and they supported Obama big time. SO, we couldn’t let that happen.

Obama took 50 BILLION of your tax dollars and gave it to GM to save those union jobs. How nice.

But that wasn’t enough. The company was in a deep financial hole. There were creditors to whom the owned billions and there were shareholders and bondholders and whatever. But we still had to save those UAW jobs. Obama was obligated because they are his supporters.

So we take the company into bankruptcy. Now that could have happened legitimately before we gave them 50 billion to burn, but it didn’t. Still, better late than never so here we go. We are going into bankruptcy.

There is a thing called structured bankruptcy where you iron out all the details ahead of time and that shortens the process considerably. Generally, bankruptcies take at least a year to make their way through the courts. This being the biggest ever might take 18 moths. After all there is a lot to this mess.

So in they go. First they cut loose dealerships which have been in business for decades. Those people are just screwed. They then screw the bondholders. Then they screw the shareholders. They then screw the creditors. Everybody gets screwed BUT the UAW and its members. This is so crooked; Obama and his crew could have gone to jail. They stole billions and billions of dollars from just about everyone. Even the shareholders are just Americans who may have invested their IRA savings in GM. And they took the hit along with everyone else. Everyone else except the UAW.

They emerged from bankruptcy in one month. ONE MONTH. When they came out, the company was leaner, cleaner, greener and meaner. A lot of people were hurt in this process, but not the UAW. They had to take a little less sure, but they ended up keeping their jobs and getting partial ownership of the company in return. That wasn’t bad considering they were the main reason the company collapsed in the first place cheating hundreds of thousands of people out of billions of dollars.

But even that is not the worst thing about this President. What’s worse is the fact that he said the bankruptcy had to be accomplished in an unheard-of MONTH and gee, it took only one month. Know what that tells us? It tell us the political power of this President and his staff extended into that courtroom and affected that judge and when politics affects justice we are on the way to becoming a third world power. That’s what happens in Venezuela and Cuba and China and Russia et al.

It never used to happen in the United States. But then much of what is happening now never happened before in the United States. We are becoming a Marxist nation and that’s really too bad for all of us I fear some voters who too gullible to see beyond the pretty face and into the heart of this President.

Some women are truly beautiful to look at. Does that mean they are good people? Does their appearance guarantee their goodness? Of course it doesn’t. Same with Obama. Maybe he is, as he once said, over his pay grade.

Remember the freedom riots in Iran. Did he come out in support of those freedom fighters? NO. He had all kinds of reasons why that wasn’t a good idea.

But when the Supreme Court of Honduras expels its MARXIST President, why who is right there to stand up for the expelled President? Our guy Barack Obama. He can find the time to publicly support a deposed Marxist President but not a freedom fighter. He just seems to get along very well with Marxists in general. That’s because in his heart and his philosophies, I believe he is one.

It’s one sad move after another for our America all at the hands of this guy from Chicago, the guy with all the radical friends in the Southside. The guy who went to school on the taxpayers’ dime and now is doing everything he can to change America from what gave him hjs change to excel, to something we really don’t need or want. And if he gets it done, you who voted for him – and your kids – will rue the day you did that.

And now for the very worst, dumbest, pointless plan of all: a national socialist
Healthcare Plan. This defies explanation.

A nation swimming in debt, out of money, is about to spend a trillion and a half dollars on something that is absolutely unnecessary. Check it out.

According to Obama, there are 43,000,000 (million) Americans who have no health care insurance. I am not sure where that number comes from and I am not sure they are truly Americans (illegal immigrants?), but I will take him at his word.

In order to ensure that these forty-three million people are covered, Obama wants us to chuck our free enterprise health care system and go for a government controlled socialist system. (He also keeps mentioning the private insurance companies refused to pick up patients with ‘pre-existing conditions’.

Let’s get rid of the second nonsense first. If pre-existing conditions are a problem, people with them could have been accepted into Medicare as are cancer victims and that would settle that. We don’t need to throw out the baby with the bath water.

But let me just talk to you a moment about these pre-existing conditions. Let’s see if you were running a private insurance company, you would want to cover them.

I walk into your insurance company office. I ask how much for a policy. You tell me I am 45 years old and have a family and my policy will cost me $650.00 a month. That’s $7,800.00 a year.

We sign a contract. “Oh by the way, “ I tell you, “I also have advanced cancer.”

This is going to cost you about one million dollars of your money to treat me, someone you didn’t even know a half hour ago. The money you get would be $7,800.00 a year and the money you have to pay out will be over one million dollars. Would you do it?

If you say sure, you will be out of business before you can say “thank you”.

Of course you can’t cover pre-existing conditions. You couldn’t do that in any business. You can’t be responsible for something you had nothing to do with.
If pre-existing conditions are a problem, then we have to take those people and put them into Medicare so we all share in the financial burden of caring for that individual. It doesn’t require a totally new system; it just requires a slight internal modification. Anything else is ridiculous.

So the real problem is the so-called 43 million who are uninsured. Let’s talk about them

To being with, who are they? (I wish I really knew. I wish anyone really knew. But we’ll pretend they are real and not just an excuse to expand government control of our lives.)

The forty-three million fit into three groups. The first and smallest are young people who don’t think they need health insurance. They will have to be given coverage no matter how we do it so we needn’t spend a lot of time on them.

The second group, larger than the first and smaller than the third, are people with NO money. No jobs and no income. They are indigent.

Well if they don’t have insurance it’s their own fault because they are eligible for MEDICAID. That’s a system in place to take care of these very people. So how are they a problem? The problem is to educate them that they can be insured with or without money. I think the real problem is these are non-citizens. Nevertheless, if they are real, they can be insured right now without money. So we don’t need a national healthcare system to take care of them. MEDICAID is their answer.

So that leaves us with the only group that may be a real problem. The people with not ENOUGH money to afford healthcare. Let’s say there are 25 million of them (although I don’t believe it).

There is an IRS program in existence right now known as the Earned Income Credit. This is for families with children. If you don’t make much money and you have kids, you can get a tax CREDIT. That’s not a deduction; it’s a credit which is money sent by the government to you.

Since this is all based on average income, let’s modify that IRS program in such a way that people without much money will get back a tax credit in the form of a voucher, which will pay for their health insurance.

Let’s say they need $5,000.00 a year for health insurance for their families. So we change the rules for the EIC credit establishing a minimum which guarantees anyone with insufficient money to buy their own health insurance will get back a credit voucher to buy it for themselves.

Since we estimate there are 25 million such families, that cost will be five thousand dollars times 25 million families or 125 BILLION dollars a year which is 900% CHEAPER than inventing a brand new government controlled health care system which will cost an arm and a leg for everyone while producing service far inferior to that we currently have.

Why would we want to do that? I wonder. It seems there must be another reason for these are simpler fixes for what’s broken in the current system. Then with the government not having to take over and run a complete health care system, they can concentrate on helping the profession become more modern in its technology. They can combine data records and cut out duplications and waste and let the medical people in this country who have produced the finest health care in the world, continue to do so.

Isn’t this a better way? If it is, why don’t they just do this and leave everything else alone? I will tell you why.

It’s because they are not after improving health care which they will not do. And it’s not after lowering costs because that too, they will not do. It will actually cost us all a lot more.

So why?

To grow the federal bureaucracy. To make the Federal government the be-all, and end-all of our lives. To put the people in government in positions to run our lives.

To take our money, and spend it as they deem necessary for “our own good”.

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That’s why.

It’s about power and about the loss of freedom.

You couldn’t sell this package of poison without a super salesman making the pitch. So that’s what they found.

Barack Obama – super salesman. Nice guy. Easy smile. Just enough to make the pitch and not enough to get in their way.

We are all being taken.

Funny, I think he is too.

Freedom was hard won – but it can be easily lost.

They say politics makes strange bedfellows. Well, it’s true. To understand that, always follow the money.

JOEY

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