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Baby Boomers and Sexual Freedom

Thursday, January 14th, 2010
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By Boomeryearbook.com

Any kind of a sexual revolution has had baby boomers in their very forefront, right from the very beginning. This is the reason why baby boomers have been given so much importance by people around the world. A recent poll and study just concluded amongst parents suggests that baby boomers have a much more enjoyable as well as enticing life than others. They enjoy a greater sexual freedom and are open to vivid types of foreplay.

This rage in echo boomers to copy the attitude of baby boomers has been growing. Baby boomers are increasing in number and today, their tally has reached to eighty five million. Today, people are increasingly interested in meeting interesting people and going the distant lane along with them. The results of numerous research done in the area suggest the very same thing. About 30 per cent of baby boomer population are single. There are about 34 per cent baby boomers out of these who indulge in having sex on their very first date. There are still other 17 per cent who indulge into pre- marital sex.

There are various intents as well as reasons which drive youngsters into copying baby boomers attitudes , as suggested by the questionnaire based survey conducted in the United States and Canada. Out of the entire lot of baby boomers, at least 47 per cent of the population consisted of those who were looking for friendship and about 17 percent others were looking for an able as well as an amicable sexual companion. Such baby boomers are increasingly sexually free as well as liberated.

The reason behind this has to do with the environment in which these baby boomers were born and brought up. These were the times of radicalism as well as social change. These were the times when feminist movements and sentiments were doing rounds in the society and these empowered women to feel more confident about their sexual wants as well as needs in the bed. These were the times when contraception became increasingly popular and the issues related to pregnancy and the fear of its social repercussions started to be forgotten. Even single parenting ceased to be a social taboo and this encouraged many women and men all over the world to indulge in sexual relationships more freely.

One of the greatest points of advantage which baby boomers enjoy over their parents’ generation has to do with a modern day lifestyle syndrome which is known as the empty nest syndrome. If you consider parents, they look forward to enjoy a very active sexual life till the time their son/daughter goes to college. When this happens, it is hard to talk about issues during bed and sexual interest gets a bit lost. Baby boomers however have the advantage of being able to find a common activity which interests both the partners. Thus while going for walks, reading or exercising routines; they can easily indulge in sexual conversation leading to activity which is highly beneficial for the entire relationship.

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Apologies,Ladies…!

Tuesday, November 24th, 2009

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By BoomerYearbook.com

Mr Obama’s take on how ‘American men treat American women badly’ begs the question: how did he arrive at this opinion? One can only assume that his experience of male and female relationships has been typified by arrogant machoism. Where, exactly, has Mr Obama been spending his time to become drawn into this locker-room impression of American male attitudes that represent American men as almost Neanderthal?

Psychological articles teach us that apologies can be difficult for some people who have difficulty admitting wrong doing. Others, equally guilty, find absolution in the simple act of saying they are sorry, whether they deserve it or not, rendering the exercise pointless.

Of course, the dramatic and overt public apologies to which Mr Obama subscribes do spark debate; affording a modicum of extra popularity (he thinks) and costs, let’s see now – erm – oh – nothing! Yes, folks, the ‘public apology crusade’ budget is zero; allowing Obama to appear benevolent; self deprecating and generous, without spending a single cent of tax payers’ money. He seems intent on practicing his skills in the art of apology on everyone he feels America has offended and some America hase not offended: no political opportunity is missed whenever Obama decides to reel in some credit from carefully selected audiences.

His apology to American women, many of whom are baby boomers, comes on the heels of apologies to China (yes, China – for the rape and pillage of Nanking, apparently, on behalf of Japanese Emperor Akihito: it was considered the neighborly thing to do…!); to two Muslim ladies for a seating plan from which they were excluded for security reasons; to Japan for giving it a good thrashing in World War II; to Chinese president Hu Jintao for being chummy with the Dalai Lama; and last but not least, let us not forget Sergeant James Crowley, the Cambridge, Massachusetts police officer at the center of controversy over his arrest of noted Harvard African-American scholar and friend of Obama, Henry Louis Gates, Jr.

Although it is becoming accustomed to Obama’s propensity to say sorry at every opportunity, the rest of the World and especially lady baby boomers raise eyebrows in surprise at the news that American women are treated badly. Until now, American women were credited for being independent, politically informed and sufficiently respected to hold their own in the international community without Obama’s kind patronage. Thanks Mr.President, for dismantling the dignity of American male / female relationships in a single swipe!

At home, Mr.Obama’s over anxious and mealy mouthed apology program has angered and offended an army of indignant American baby boomers, outraged at what they see as the demeaning of their national status on the World stage, seeing his policies as discrediting the country in terms of foreign diplomacy. Many of them would prefer to see an attempt at resolving America’s economic and security issues, rather than this futile and empty campaign to promote its president as Mr Nice Guy. Psychological articles observe that a personality that is over apologetic might be suffering from lack in confidence (although probably not in this case) and as we all know, the value of apology becomes shallow through over use.

Frequently referred to in the international press as a ‘snake in the grass’

http://www.nowpublic.com/world/obamacare-snake-grass-rears-its-ugly-head, http://www2.mcdowellnews.com/content/2008/nov/18/letter-editor-youll-learn-obama-snake-grass/news-opinion/) and determined to charm America’s female population, Mr. Obama’s impromptu apologies about the way American women are treated are seen by him as steps in the right direction: American women may easily conclude that in the Obama household frequent apology, justified or otherwise, is the prescribed antidote to feminine disapproval…

American baby boomers view these hollow political gestures with interest – waiting, indeed hoping, for fleeting moments of useful statesmanship to appear amidst Obama’s Oscar-winning performances that draw applause from gullible fans and supporters at home and abroad. Mr. Obama is nothing short of accomplished when it comes to inspiring popularity and also extreme offence in the same sentence and continues to play to the crowd whenever he speaks publicly; like a true thespian- but possibly less sincerity?

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Dear Senators,

Wednesday, November 18th, 2009

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By Joseph J. Kusnell

Dear Senators,

I received this from Senator Arlen Spector’s (PA) office:

“Health care reform should improve health care for those currently insured. Insurance companies should cover more preventive care costs and be prohibited from refusing to renew coverage in the event of catastrophic illnesses, denying coverage, or charging higher rates based on gender, pre-existing conditions or health status. Reforms should also eliminate lifetime and annual caps and limit out of pocket expenses.”

Give me a break. First, let’s discuss pre-existing conditions. How do you presume a for-profit company can accept someone at $700/mo. who is terminally ill and will cost them one million dollars. Would you do that with your own money? And what happens to the company or its employees because that company can’t stay in business being Santa Claus to people they never saw until they walked in sick.

The cap is another matter and certainly a case can be made that you can’t discharge someone simply because they reach a maximum cost to you; not if you are to remain in the insurance business. That has an element of truth but the rest is political and that’s sickening.

Some insurance companies have a waiting period for pre-existing illnesses. Why not just let Medicare cover the waiting period and then turn it back to the private company. That works for me.

As to the 43 million or 61 million or 30 million – Democrats have used all those numbers – the truth is none of them are accurate and your using them tells me you don’t mind lying if it gets your agenda passed.

The following breakdown comes directly from the US Census Bureau, 2009.

 10.0 million are individuals who have income of $66,000 for a family of four that choose not to have insurance. They could afford it if they wanted it. It’s their choice. ERASE 10.0 MILLION.

 9.3 million are non-citizens who generally do not pay tax. (ILLEGALS)
They are going to become part of the final group in this list. So save this number.

 6.4 million are enrolled in Medicaid or S-CHIP but reported to the Census taker that they were not. This phenomenon is known among statisticians as the Medicaid undercount. These folks are covered yet are wrongfully included in the non-covered count. ERASE 6.4 MILLION.

 4.3 million are eligible for Medicaid or S-CHIP but for their own reasons, have not enrolled.
(So when they come in for any service, enroll them. Problem solved. ERASE 4.3 MILLION.

 5 million are childless, mainly healthy young adults who could afford insurance but don’t want to pay for it because they think they are indestructible. Money is not their problem so (1) mandate health insurance to get a driver’s license and (2) offer cataclysmic health insurance for singles up to age 35. Then let them buy their own insurance. ERASE 5 MILLION.

 10 million indeed do need help to buy insurance. So save this number.

So in summation, you can see that the number that have no insurance and cannot afford insurance is really significantly less than 43 million. It is closer to 20 million and that includes 10 million who are not even citizens of the United States. You could buy them all health insurance for 160 billion s year and it would be a lot cheaper than what you are doing and a lot smarter. Anyway, they don’t all need 100% assistance. Some may need as little as half so the total would probably be under 100 billion annually. Far short of a trillion.

If you really wanted to solve the problems you could but it wouldn’t fit your real agenda – Universal Health Insurance and control of 1/3 of the US economy – so you won’t. And because you are so biased and so driven by your agenda, we can’t resolve the real problems that do in fact exist. Thanks to you, this has become a political football rather than a true attempt at reform.

You people should all be kicked out of office since you are incapable of telling the truth.

I care about the poor and disfranchised but that doesn’t make me stupid. If you kill the goose that lays the golden eggs, there will be no more geese and no more golden eggs either. And if you take from producers repeatedly to give to non-producers you are going to create a world of non-producers and in the end that just won’t work. What do you guys eat for dinner anyway.

We are being led by fools.

Oh yes, I love the idea of Marxists and Mao-lovers in the White House and DEVOUT MUSLIMS in Homeland Security lol. I was led to believed that the guns that ran those planes into the World Trade Center were all DEVOUT MUSLIMS.

What’s up, Mr. Chamberlain? How did your meeting go with Mr. Hitler?????

Dopes.

If we get hit because of your idiocy and toleration of our enemies, I hope it’s in your town and not mine.

Say a prayer for the kids killed at Ft Hood in that “man made disaster”.

The lady in the harbor has a tear in her eye, for sure.

Sincerely,

Mr. Joseph Kusnell

Coaching for Goal Achievement: The Power of Affirmations

Friday, November 6th, 2009

By Boomeryearbook.com

We have all heard of positive affirmations and their benefits, a lot of articles, books and people swear by their power. But what is it about this simple technique of affirming good things to yourself that makes it so effective and powerful? The answer lies in the following facts:

Affirmations give you the power

When we affirm something positive to ourselves we acknowledge the responsibility for our actions and thoughts. With responsibility comes the power to change our situation. For instance when we affirm “I open myself to accepting love”, we tell ourselves that I am responsible for attracting love into my life, and once we take responsibility for it, we realize that we have the power to change our situation by being open to receiving love.

They simplify the process of life- change your thoughts to change your situation

We humans tend to complicate the simplest of things. For instance we make a simple act like loving ourselves difficult by bringing in issues like, what people think of us and base our self-worth on our material achievements or physical appearance. Affirmations simplify life, by reminding us that whatever we tell ourselves repeatedly becomes our truth. When we look at positive affirmations we realize how we have been affirming the exact opposite of them and it has done us no good! When you make a positive affirmation like, “I love and accept myself”, you simplify your life. Once you start loving and accepting yourself, most of your problems will disappear!

Talk about the present and give a subtle hint to the subconscious that the present is what matters

Affirmations are always about “I am”; they are about “now”. Repeated positive affirmations therefore give suggestions about concentrating on the present, to our subconscious. Self-talk of people who live in the past is about “was” and “were”, constant self-talk in the past trains the subconscious to focus more on the past than on the present. Similarly chronic worriers are always talking in “will”, “would” and “could”, the subconscious mind therefore gets trained to focus on the future. In both the scenarios we end up ruining our present. If want to change our life situation, we would need to make changes in the present, the past is gone, the future is unseen! Positive affirmations help us focus all are actions and thoughts towards changing the present.

These three factors are the source of the power of positive affirmations.

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